The snip but won't cum inside me

[rainbowsprite56]

My dh had the snip last year, I was on learn term contraception, i have had it removed as it's run out. My dh has the all clear, but since I've ad my contraception out he will no longer cum inside me. Is this a normal thing?

No I'd say it was the complete opposite. I love my DH cumming inside me so I was always on contraception so he could.
As soon as he got the all clear that contraception was gone and we could enjoy him cumming in me knowing there wasn't a risk anymore.

Makes no sense to me? It's literally the green light to cum inside and not have any worries 🤣 my OH had the snip, I came off the pill & we couldn't wait to not have any pregnancy scares after ejaculating inside me! Has he said why he won't?

He said he doesn't want me to get pregnant 🤷‍♀️(work that out). When I have been pregnant I have gotten pregnant quickly so I get it, but the
Point of him having the snip was for me not to fall pregnant. I just don't understand

No that sounds ridiculous IMO. Why go through the pain of the snip if you're not going to make use of the fact you've had one 🙈

Did he really go for the snip? Any chance he faked it?

The snip isn’t 100% effective, maybe he’s worrying about the minuscule risk?

He did go for snip, I saw it after and also I saw the letter to say it was successful

That's what I think it might be, we really don't want anymore dc's, hence the snip but I think he might be concerned. The letter said there is a 1 in 2000 chance of me getting pregnant.

It is quite odd to go through the operation and then refuse to cum inside you, given that's the whole point of it and given that most men desperately want to cum inside women they have sex with.

And that '1 in 2000' is even more rare than it sounds because it's "1 man in 2,000 will get a woman pregnant in the rest of his life", as you probably know?

If he's so worried about something that's a 1/2000 chance in the rest of his life he's going to be very disappointed with something at some point.

Not sure I understand either. My DH has had the snip already and I always want him to cum inside me, which he is very happy to do.

Spot on. Nothing better than cumming inside … the best feeling in the world. Seems very strange !

Does cumming inside make a difference? If he cums on you is it that much of a difference?

sorry to say, I wondered too.

XH refused to get the snip as we know of 2 babies born post snip.

He said there was no point going through all that if it wasn't 100% effective, so we'd have carried on with condoms post snip anyway.

A vasectomy is very effective, most cases of pregnancy are due to the fact that patients do not wait 16weeks before unprotected sex and have not had their ejaculate tested to confirm that no sperm cells are present.
Like most contraception it's generally human error that is the cause of the failure.
Was he OK to cum inside you while you were taking your female contraception, I know many pregnancies that have occurred while on the pill. I'm sure he was OK about those risks.
He should go for a re-test of his ejaculate to check no sperm count and put his fears to bed so you can then both make use of the procedure.