Intimate massage oil

[Cherryann]

Can anyone recommend one? (Preferably not coconut oil as it always seems so solid and makes me think of cooking, not very erotic.)

I’ve found loads on Amazon but worried some highly scented ones might irritate the more delicate parts.

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If you've found this page in your search of the massage oils that have been recommended by fellow Mumsnet users, you might find our guide to the best massage oils useful. Hope this helps! MNHQ

Organic Sweet Almond Oil is great, smells nice, feels good on your skin, food safe and even tastes ok and it's safe to use everywhere and ok with silicone toys.

Coconut oil once in the hand or on the body melts to liquid quite quickly in my experience and I love the smell, reminds me of hot European beaches.

Also have a look at Bijoux Indiscrets, their intimate products have been good for us. Clearly just like hair dye do a patch test first!!

I actually like the way coconut oil melts on the skin in a controlled way rather than slopping everywhere and ruining sheets, etc. If you get the refined coconut oil, much of the smell is removed.

How about shea or cocoa butter if you don't like the culinary associations of coconut oil?

Try grapeseed oil. It's neutral in smell but you can then add a couple of drops of any essential oil to half a cup. That allows you to change the smell to suit your mood.

Just make sure you only decant what you need.

https://www.newdirectionsaromatics.com/blog/articles/the-best-essential-oils-and-carrier-oils-for-a-body-massage.html

Thanks so much for great recommendations! Will try a few, hard work no doubt but someone has to do it 😀.

Just remember that oil and latex condoms don't mix. So once you have diligently worked through all the suggestions for oils, if you're using latex condoms, there are lots of non-latex ones to test as well.
Enjoy! 😉

We’ve used organic Yes Yes Yes oil and water based lubricants for some years - very similar to natural secretions for intimate use, and can be used for massage as well as DTD! Started on water based then mixed with oil based and now we love the oil based. See yesyesyes.org