Aggressive, dirty talk during sex... Is it normal?

[Tuilpmouse]

Btw, By aggressive, I mean in the context of a non-abusive caring relationship in a consensual situation. It's never nasty or mean.

I love it, and frequently use the f word, even c word, and find it just adds to the mood!

Is this normal though? Or am I acting out a pornified cliche that most other people balk at?

So long as you don't mean talking about the disgusting filth that came out of the kitchen sink u bend I'd say it was fairly normal.

Every couple will have different versions of what is acceptable/desirable

The motto is safe, sane and consensual! As long as you both love it then other people’s opinions don’t matter!

@Surplus2requirements or the ming from the shower drain...that mix of used shampoo, hair and who TF knows what goes down teenage shower drains....going to barf....

Well @Tuilpmouse tbh my DW and are have definitely upped the anti that way of late....I read recently it described as metabolised aggression...basically a good hard sexy f*!!

Well as @Mermaidparades said if you are both happy and agree and like it then hit that F F F* it button.

@Rieslinger Mrs Rieslinger is a lucky lady … phew…did it just get hot in here????

@Mermaidparades I know!!😆

My dp is such a polite gentle chap but always comes out with a super dirty talk before the big O
I really like it .

In my first crappy sex relationship.i rarely said anything. When I started s nee relationship with simeone who thought I was gorgeous I was Vical, telling him.what I wanted him to.do etc. I would sometimes call him a b'stard. I.dont know where it came from🤣 he loved it. I would not worry

We are similar...DH is lovely and gentle but we enjoy a good sex life. When he was very aroused he verged in talking dirty as it sort of came out and I liked it, and encouraged him within my bounds of embarrassment. Now once we are both really turned on, he will use all sorts of dirty words and call be a slut and I will reply being slutty. Makes for a very strong and intense orgasm. What goes on in the bedroom just needs to stay in the bedroom and enjoy yourselves