I would just like an overall consensus.
I’m with a new guy (been together about 5 months) and the other day he said ‘you have a great vagina, not tight not baggy’. Instantly, my back was up. I’ve always been pretty tight if I’m honest and had nearly all ex partners mention it.
Two things though have changed in my life over the years.
I don’t know why, but I get quite wet with him. I’ve always been super wet but this is just ridiculous, so that gives us minimal friction during sex which I guess makes him thinks I’m ‘looser’.
I also had a child 4 years ago who was massive (though birthed through c section, he was extremely heavy and weighed down on my pelvic floor)
He has absolutely no issue coming but I do notice him sometimes do certain positions so his penis hits the side of vagina, I guess for sensation? But this is rare.
I’m just annoyed he even mentioned it and I always thought anything other than ‘tight’ is bad and so now I’m really hating the idea of sex with him.
Would you be annoyed with his comments or just move on from it? Am I being too sensitive.