Sex toy help

[Fashion83]

3 kids under 7 (6.5, 5 and 2). Married 9 years but together for 18(!) years. Sex life has been up and down throughout having children, demanding jobs, pregnancy… etc but recently since the youngest is sleeping and the tiredness is subsiding I’ve found myself wanting sex 4/5 times a week. DH delighted. We’d like to experiment with sex toys (not something we’ve done in years). Where do I start?

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We vibe chorus works for us and can be controlled remotely through an app when apart. Not cheap but worth every penny. My partner prefers clitoral penetration so not really into dildos iykwim

Hey there! Fanfare and celebrations for the sleeping child situation 🎉🥂 My first first toy was a Womaniser, it was like sexual CPR! I felt alive again! If clit stimulation is your thing then one of the suction toys or a magic wand would be just the thing! If penetration is for you then go for a vibrator, I have found Lelo to be a great brand.

I think Lovehoney is a good website to browse together, they’ve got everything from remote control toys, anal plugs, clamps. Explore together 💖

I am in love with my Doxy. And I have a Love Honey wand that also gives beautiful orgasms. I don't think you can go wrong with a wand but it's ruined me for my other sex toys as they just don't compare.

The Doxy is fantastic, use It with your partner, bliss...

Another vote for a Doxy wand. Amazing!

My DW loves her Rabbit from LH, the ears work for me too!

Great news for you both and hope you've found something already. There are lots of toys for clit stimulation which you can use for yourself, or for foreplay ( or afterplay!), these tend to be wands or suction stimulators like the womanizer but there are lots of new brands making modern, sustainable toys e.g. Dame so check them out too. For couple toys theres' the we-vibes and Lovense remote play toys, and 'machines' and saddles are more popular than you'd imagine! Finally, don't forget the illusive g-spot. New toys are now really aiming to help women get to that spot just as much as the men's ones to get to the p-spot. Some vibes from great companies like Fun Factory have ends made specially for that, and the latest trend is for Stainless steel toys that rock you to your G-spot 7th heaven- from great brands like Njoy.
So happy experimenting, and if you get the right toy first time, check out how to sterilize it and recycle it.
Hope that helps.

I have to say the Hitachi wand, I couldn't do without mine and I think all ladies should have one. I also read good things about the Doxy wand and imagine this will be the same. I would also recommend a nice silicone dildo for when your DH is not around!

@MaryJean87
Ditto! Once you've tried a wand, nothing else compares

I'm a relatively new convert to toys. I've had my head turned by the suction clitoral stimulators, but now I'm wondering if I need a wand in my bag of tricks. Do I? Is it going to be a different experience to a rabbit, a satisfyer pro and a bullet @Ivebeenframed @MaryJean87

@MovingonfromMartin
The wand has much more power and coupled with a rabbit or penetration, gives a very intense orgasm. You have to try it!

The price puts me off a bit but I shall add it to my ever growing list of things I fancy! Thank you