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Men secretly meeting other men?

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Sens · 02/03/2023 18:13

A woman I once met told me that she had often heard that men who are in relationship with women secretly meet other men for sex. They choose to do that because they need sex but don’t want to pay or get into trouble. I guess these men are bi or at least bi-curious.
Have you heard of this? Have you experieced this? Have you done this??
I have not done this but I’m a bit curious and if I was in a sexless relationship, who knows if that could happen. At least there would be no other woman!

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HornyBee · 02/03/2023 18:22

Wtf?!
THIS is exactly what's wrong with the sex board now.
Well OP, if you've never heard of a married man, cheating on his wife with another man you seriously need to get out more. Of course it fucking happens. It's not a new thing. Fml!

NotTooOldPaul · 02/03/2023 18:28

It is cheating and wrong. I am married and so I will not have sex with anyone else. It would not matter if it was a man or woman, paid for or free it would be wrong.

LadyAstor · 02/03/2023 18:53

Of course it's a thing. Where have you been hiding? It even has a name - Men who have sex with other men.

They're not gay, they just want uncomplicated, good, readily available sex.

PinotPony · 02/03/2023 20:20

What an odd question.

Of course there are men who have sex with other men. Some of them are married, some are single. Some are gay, some are bi or bi-curious.

Anyone who has sex with another person behind their partners back is cheating. The sex of the person they cheat with is irrelevant.

Does that clear it up for you?

Wherearemymarbles · 02/03/2023 21:04

From the way you phrase the question it sounds like you’re saying all men??

Anyway you’re not being clear about what you are asking!

Wherearemymarbles · 02/03/2023 21:04

From the way you phrase the question it sounds like you’re saying all men??

Anyway you’re not being clear about what you are asking!

Isitsixoclockalready · 02/03/2023 21:14

LadyAstor · 02/03/2023 18:53

Of course it's a thing. Where have you been hiding? It even has a name - Men who have sex with other men.

They're not gay, they just want uncomplicated, good, readily available sex.

They must be at least bi curious.

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Sens · 02/03/2023 22:09

HornyBee · 02/03/2023 18:22

Wtf?!
THIS is exactly what's wrong with the sex board now.
Well OP, if you've never heard of a married man, cheating on his wife with another man you seriously need to get out more. Of course it fucking happens. It's not a new thing. Fml!

Wow… easy… is this what is wrong with the sex board? I’m asking about sexual behaviour that I’m curious about and you tell me that I need to get out more 🧐 OK, I will, sorry.

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Sens · 02/03/2023 22:14

PinotPony · 02/03/2023 20:20

What an odd question.

Of course there are men who have sex with other men. Some of them are married, some are single. Some are gay, some are bi or bi-curious.

Anyone who has sex with another person behind their partners back is cheating. The sex of the person they cheat with is irrelevant.

Does that clear it up for you?

I was talking about men in relationships. Ofcourse it is cheating. My questions were quite clear I thought.

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Sens · 02/03/2023 22:18

Wherearemymarbles · 02/03/2023 21:04

From the way you phrase the question it sounds like you’re saying all men??

Anyway you’re not being clear about what you are asking!

Sorry, no I was meaning all men… some men.
My questions were:
Have you guys heard about this? Experienced this or even done this? What is not clear about the questions?

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Andypandy799 · 03/03/2023 06:54

Nope never heard of it and would never do nothing with a man I’m straight thanks for asking

PinotPony · 03/03/2023 09:30

Yes, we've heard of it.

Yes, some of us have experienced it.

Unless you explain why you want to know, people are unlikely to share details with you. HTH.

NCSexForum · 03/03/2023 10:02

If my DP was having sex with a man without me knowing, it would be worse for me than finding out he was having sex with a woman. I have nothing against Bi/gay men but the fact we were having sex as a heterosexual couple and he was having sex with men would be a huge betrayal.

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