Threesomes experiences

[Larsson11]

I know this subject might be a bit taboo, but would love to hear other peoples experiences on whether you have tried a threesome. My partner and I have been thinking for a while. I am pretty keen as as I have heard they can be very very freeing and a great way to explore your sexuality. Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated.

I’ve only had threesomes with 2 women and one man, but would happily try the
reverse too. In my experience the best ones were when it was a fwb couple and a stranger/ acquaintance.

I've been the unicorn for a couple I met online. That was fun. I'd do it again but now I'm in a relationship so would be searching for a unicorn myself... My main takeaway was that I felt safer meeting a couple than I did meeting a solo man.

I've also been with two men. I was too young and it was mainly hard work. Now... well if dp would consider it then I would too.

I've met a lot of couples. You may call the ladies hotwifes. Sometimes the man joins in but they mainly enjoy watching. Perhaps joining in at the end. I'm straight. So it's a MFM not a MMF.

It's not just sex. It may appear odd but the social side of things before and after is really important to me.

On Sunday I'm meeting a couple. I've met them a number of times before. He will watch. Never joins in. She would like him to. I've invited a male naughty friend I know to join with the hotwife and I.

I have to say anyone who referred to me as a hotwife wouldn't get much further... I know it's the jargon but it's awful. I also prefer the idea of men who are open to touching each other rather than it all being 100% hetero.

It's the term they use to describe their relationship. It's common on Fab. They have a web profile with that in. Their words not mine.

I've had both varieties. I was the additional partner in one with a couple, it was a complete disaster. It eventually broke them up. The next was FFM and a bit better, then I had a MMF one which logistically worked best, mainly because none of us were in a relationship or emotionally involved.

Tbh I have absolutely no desire to have one again, the idea was far better than the reality! I certainly wouldn't have one in a relationship but that is me and my boundaries.

It's a term that describes a particular dynamic and certainly doesn't apply to all threesome scenarios.
I can see why many wouldn't want to be labelled that and in many cases it would simply be wrong anyway.

OrlandointheWilderness
good advice !
I’ve toyed with the idea (me as the unicorn)
but when it comes to it ….
i saw it as a hot way to experiment with a woman but in reality I think the jealousy could be risk
I wouldnt like it

I've had several, as well as moresomes. Never get jealous - it's just all fun together. I recommend joining fab as a couple. We have had some good random luck meeting people and have had a few with single women which is rare but a lot of fun. Had one MMF which is obviously easier to set up 😆 which I definitely want to do again.