Fling

[KirstyMac74]

I’ve been married for nearly 20 years and our sex life has never been great. DH is very self conscious about his size and has lost almost all interest now. I made a joke recently about having to outsource that side of our relationship and he responded “go for it!” Do any ladies have experience of finding someone for discreet fun? I missed the whole Internet dating thing so no idea if that would be an option.

3 inches is very small. But assume you’ve enjoyed sex before? Try Kegel balls / exercises to help, or you can do other things with your partner, if he’s willing. Strap on’s, oral. I’d imagine it will hurt him a lot if you’re getting sex elsewhere as his penis is too small. I feel for the guy, but it’s clear you’re not satisfied. I’d have to leave though, I couldn’t go elsewhere when it’s something that he can’t help, and has been ok in the past. I’d work on doing other things or leave.