Is there such a thing as a great lube ?

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Hope you can help me ! We are using a lube called super slick bought on Amazon. Overall it’s not bad but when I want to get my partner to come when I’m pleasuring him with my hand/mouth, the lube tends to dry up/grip and I need to apply more and it makes me lose the momentum. I didn’t succeed into making him come because I was faffing too much I think so he finished on his own !

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Hi
Try pjur original , Amazon sell it , last a long time and doesn't have a taste it you want to kiss , lick various body parts , enjoy

Buy silicone based lubricant instead, it doesn't dry out

We use a lube based on coconut oil called "yes!". It avoids the drying out issues of water-based lubes; and the damage to toys that you can get with silicone-based lubes.

Another vote for pjur... it doesn't dry out like some lubes.

Another thumbs up for Pjur also if you like your water based try a Tenga egg, might not work for you but I will put serious money on that he will love it.

I found standard lube gave me lots of UTIs (apparently some have sugar in??) - Hanx lube is a bit pricey but I use that all the time now, no smell and water-based so safe with condoms (our contraception)

Another Pjur fan here. We've used the "Original" for several years mainly for anal sex but also occasionally it's been handy for PIV. It's also great for massaging DW as a prelude to either of the above! It's long-lasting and durable yet does seem eventually to be absorbed pleasantly into the skin so you're not left swimming in the stuff. Readily available from Amazon as I think maybe a pp has already said. Not the cheapest but very good value for my money. It also claims to be condom and latex toy friendly although I've not had the personal experience to be able to comment on that.

I've also just realised in waxing lyrical about Pjur that I've strayed from the OPs question which was specifically to do with lube applied to her partner while she pleasured him with her hand and mouth. I would imagine Pjur would be great for this too but we've never tried as I'm not sure DW would like the taste of any kind of lube during oral.

Liquid Silk from Lovehoney is great