Where to find threesome partner

[LolaMoon]

Hey everyone, my partner (M) and I (F) are interested in opening up our relationship and experiencing a threesome with a woman. How do you find a third person? theres no way I'm asking anyone I know because that would be awkward as heck and I dont fancy any of my friends/aquaintances anyway. Where do people find people into this? I am bi curious but so far, there have only been very few women I've actually felt sexually attracted to- I seem to have a very specific type when it comes to women (whereas I have felt attracted to many different men). Any advice?

Fab/feeld. I think you're searching for what is known as a "unicorn" though so it may take a while!

haha! Really? the search begins lol

Yep. Fabswingers

The elusive unicorn is not elusive, but without meaning to sound awful finding someone you both find attractive can be an issue as single women on there who are looking to be with a MC couple are absolutely inundated with messages

Thank you. I did wonder this although I'm actually surprised a third person is so rare. In a way, it might be easier being the third person because theres no emotional attachment there so you can just have fun and move on (with no risk of any jealousy etc)

You say you are curious; I fail to understand why any woman would want to have her first experience with another female in the presence of someone else. It is something quite special and not for the male gaze.

She is in a MF relationship. A lot of men aren’t going to be comfortable with their partner going sole with another sexual partner, even if it is a female!

@Witsendwilly - Maybe I did not express myself particularly well, my words about the whole situation were not meant to come over as encouraging, but for the OP to ensure they had thought it through properly.

Thank you for the input- food for thought. But I am very comfortable in this scenario and it was actually me who suggested it (not my male partner).