I love Lady Chatterleys Lover on Netflix right now, as the sex scenes center the woman's pleasure, rather than the typical (deadly boring) porn.
The male actor is also very sexy (nothing worse than a beautiful woman who is with a male actor that is not in her league!). It immediately reads like a male fantasy and not believable or sexy for women.
Can you recommend any legit movies/TV with fire couples having the kind of sex women actually want/find erotic?