I thought we were a bit kinky

[MumWifeSexyBeast]

OK, so I feel a bit weird writing this. I was recently having a coffee with a friend and we were talking about how you don't know what goes on in a marriage. So, I told her that when it came to sex, we used to be very conservative, we both thought sex was good, but in hindsight it was vanilla all the way.

Anyway, this all changed in one night, quite by accident and without any conscience thought. We had sex that for a certain reason became full on Neapolitan.

So when I told her all this and had explained what occurred, I was fully expecting her to be surprised. Instead, she just said, “oh, that’s not kinky, you’ll find that most couples have done that”.

I'll be honest, I was deflated. I think I like the idea of being a kinky beast.

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So what was it OP? Role Play? Licking food off each other? Tying to the bed? Anal?

We can't say whether we think you're "kinky" without you revealing what it was you did.

I think nowadays you have to do something really out there to be considered kinky. None of the above would qualify.

It all depends what you consider kinky as well. Most people build up their sexual experiences over time as they try more and things. I always want to try and see if I like it and if not then don't do it again.

Also don't get pressured into anything you are not comfortable with.

OK, so when I was pregnant with my boy, I got to the point when my boobs went massive, round and full. I had boobs that porn stars might pay thousands for. They were magnificent. In time nature took its course and I started lactating and sex was off the menu.

When I gave birth, the maternity ward was really busy, I wanted to breast feed but there were problems with him latching on, the hospital just didn’t give me enough time and they put him on the bottle. From that day on I had to express my milk with a hand pump and feed him by the bottle. After 18 months of doing this I felt like a cow, I was sexless and my husband found it all a bit YUCK.

Please don’t say he should have been more supportive because he was amazing, my boobs still looked magnificent but with even the slightest touch they project squirted in several directions.

So on the night in question, we were in bed, watching TV, I was naked with pads on my boobs and sex scene came on. It was a normal tv but we hadn't had sex for 18 months and suddenly I was incredibly aroused, and the aroma of sex filled the air. I lent over and felt that hubby had an erection. I just jumped on him and was hotdogging his dick and grinding. I've never been so wet as I was in that moment

Hubby reached up to fondle my tits but I saw in this eyes a handbrake come on and his mind was rapidly withdrawing from the sexual moment.

I grabbed his hands pushed them on my tits and whist grinding started to talk sexy dirty to him and bang, he was back in the room. We had sex and I kept telling him that I wanted it, like we used to do it. I leant forward and my tits were in his face and he started to kissing them Wow, it felt amazing and THEN HE BEGAN SUCKING MY NIPPLE. I was surprised and a little shocked. In my mind it was so wrong but my nipples were so sensitive it felt incredible. As he sucked, I could feel my milk flowing it sounds strange but I in my mind it I felt it was like squirting. I wanted to say stop, but Wow, it was so good I went with the moment.

Anyway, when it was over, we had that OMG did we really do that moment. We both agreed to never leave it that long again.
This was A one off, moment of madness. Except the next evening we were spooning in bed and his arm came around onto my boob, 40 minutes later we were once again changing the sheets.

Boob play and nipple sucking became just part of our sexual life. I loved it. My favorite position was sitting on him and riding him, and leaning forward and watching him on my nipple, it just became wet, dirty talking sex and we loved it.

I thought we were being kinky, but maybe it's more common that I thought.

Ummmmmm nipple play and sucking nipples is so normal! I love it and pretty much every man I have slept with (and sone I haven't got that far with) have done it

Normal
Sucking nipples = yes
Him drinking your milk = no

So yeah, bit kinky OP 😊 glad you had fun.

I think lots of people will have tasted the milk but most won't have had a good guzzle and drunk a lot.

My wife has her nipples pierced but removed them for feeding and she used to find it hilarious to squirt the milk at me from all angles 😂

Nipple sucking is completely normal and I think if you hadn't done it pre this moment, you were missing out. I love having my nipples sucked especially when I'm on top! But the milk thing is more kinky, is this more what you were referring to?

Yep, its the milk thing. We always loved breast play, my husband is whats referred to as a 'tit man'. But I thinks its because I didn't nurse, instead I expressed -seemingly continuously. So when it happened I knew it was wrong but it felt amazing and it became sort of wet sex not milk sex.
I cant explain why, but in my head it felt like I was squirting, I think it was the sexual release

We used to do this during sex. More than a taste, less than a full feed lol. I never really considered it a kink because it wasn't something I had any interest in either before or since my then dp lactating. But she made a lot of milk, and there was constant leakage, so engaging in sex would cause a full on let down. It would spray everywhere, so the easiest thing to do was for me to get a mouthful of it.

My current dp is quite into having her nipples sucked (I enjoy it because it gets her off, she has even orgasmed from it). Sometimes a small amount of milk is released even though she's not breastfed or been pregnant in 10 years!

In the context of the back story it doesn't seem kinky as a one-off thing that happened. If this is now a regular thing, this is somewhat kinky I guess.....

This was a regular when I was BF.