So I have always been abit selfish in bed. Spent a few years using men for sex and lived by the words "as long as I get what I want". Now I'm over a year into a relationship with my bf and head over heels in love. We are both mid 30's. He goes out of his way to please me sexually. The sex is amazing, I must cum 20 times during 1 session. He massages me, goes down on me before and after sex. I'm in to bdsm, spanking etc and he wasn't but he makes the effort also.
If he hasn't finished inside me, he will pull out and I'll fall asleep. He's frustrated and will wait until morning and I often wake up with his head between my legs. I'll cum a few times then that's it, I'll get ready for work. Ill be at work wih a smime on my face and hes grumpy. It's like my brain doesn't even consider his pleasure. He says he shouldnt have to ask me. It's starting to cause issues with us.
He's bought me some sexy things to wear for him. They're very tasteful but I haven't worn them as I prefer to be naked.
He says I'm not selfish in any other aspect of life, just in bed. I really love him but I'm so focused on my own pleasure. Has anyone else been like this or been with someone like this?