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Deleted Sexchat Thread

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everywhichway · 21/10/2022 10:12

Anyone know why the Online Sexchat thread has suddenly been deleted after several months bumbling along in its horny little way? I hadn't noticed anything particularly offensive on there.

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Wandawhochanged · 21/10/2022 11:11

Were there many men posting as women?

I had two Chat partners who disappeared without warning. Another accused me of being a man.

I have two new chat mates who I like, one only talks about sexy things, another we reminisce as well as talk each other through... We are a bit older I suspect.

I shall miss having somewhere to chat and avoid dick-pics.

Funberry · 21/10/2022 11:22

I had wondered the same thing. Unfortunately, here as in other adult themed chat sites, it does attract some people (mainly men) of questionable interpretations of polite....and pushy...and perhaps it had therefore drawn complaints from female users who were inundated with messages from horny guys.

everywhichway · 21/10/2022 11:33

Funberry · 21/10/2022 11:22

I had wondered the same thing. Unfortunately, here as in other adult themed chat sites, it does attract some people (mainly men) of questionable interpretations of polite....and pushy...and perhaps it had therefore drawn complaints from female users who were inundated with messages from horny guys.

Yes, I think that may well have had something to do with it. Certainly, there have been instances of women on other threads being pestered by men who originally appeared on the sexchat thread - and who presumably didn't get what they were looking for there. Real shame to delete the whole thread for that though as lots of folk seemed to be having a genuinely fun time on it - and not just chatting about sex!

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DeltaAlphaDelta79 · 21/10/2022 11:49

Yes I agree. Had some good chats with some women from there, and is a shame if the minority ruined it for the rest.

everywhichway · 21/10/2022 12:08

MNHQ - Any comments on this?

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ThreeGoesAtAWord · 21/10/2022 14:40

I noticed last night that it had disappeared. I didn't see anything on the thread that was offensive. It's been up for months and MNHQ have commented on it previously.... why take it down now?

If people are being harassed surely you can just hit the block button?

I have found a lovely guy from it. Our chat ranges from downright dirty to regular everyday stuff. We've even spent a few evenings watching a movie (not blue!) together.

stereoboomer · 21/10/2022 15:53

Has it been deleted? I did wonder. Ah well. I am m 43, and not paired up. If any ladies fancy a good old chinwag etc etc the please feel free to PM me.

everywhichway · 21/10/2022 16:03

Come on HQ - tell us why!

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Sparkybloke · 21/10/2022 17:27

Careful or we will all get struck off! M 57

Violet90 · 21/10/2022 17:47

I take it rules we’re broken, maybe men sending persistent messages, or people not appearing who they are. There was a thread also on here about an Open Relationship that was deleted because there were concerns about the poster and the person sending links in pm’s.

MegFaeGlesga · 21/10/2022 18:37

Well, personally I think that's a shame. I'm all for moderating these chats, especially on sex topics that often attract some dodgy characters, but to completely delete a thread based on "concerns" is like saying that readers can't make up their own minds about what's real and what's not, or what's worthy of discussion and what isn't.
I know the open relationship thread you are talking about, I was following it with interest and personally I found it very inspiring. I was really hoping to read the full version, but the OP was clearly kicked out, so no chance of that now.

xMeMyPeachAndIx · 21/10/2022 19:35

This one will be deleted soon- for being a thread about a thread!
Maybe if loads of people were reporting others as a result of the thread, from dm's or whatever, it's causing them hassle so easier to delete the thread and put an end to it. Idk 🤷🏼‍♀️

Lycosidae · 21/10/2022 19:51

Weird it was taken down after so long. I had a few nice chats with women, most never really got going, one was amazing.

Let’s see how long this one lasts.

NorthAngel · 21/10/2022 20:05

everywhichway · 21/10/2022 10:12

Anyone know why the Online Sexchat thread has suddenly been deleted after several months bumbling along in its horny little way? I hadn't noticed anything particularly offensive on there.

What did you do??? Lol

Sparkybloke · 21/10/2022 21:14

I had one amazing chat with a lovely lady but no others got going. I won't be messaging anyone else but if someone messages me I am happy to reply..

hornyyorkie · 21/10/2022 21:51

F 48 if anyone looking for a chat!

stereoboomer · 21/10/2022 22:10

Fit fella here looking for nice gentle/sexy chat (If you want) but most important is ro have fun and a laugh. PM if piqued your interest. Just saying

40f · 22/10/2022 01:02

Ah I was just coming to look for that thread. Wanting to chat as I don’t sleep well.

Nomad98 · 22/10/2022 08:34

Ol

Nomad98 · 22/10/2022 08:35

Ooops premature posting....honestly all I suffer from.
Older male up for any sort of chat with the ladies

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 22/10/2022 10:15

Hi all - not sure which thread it was, exactly - if you've got any more info we're happy to take a look. We were made aware of disagreements happening on another platform that had made their way here and derailed a thread.

FWIW, we've no problem with a sex chat thread among consenting adults!

Nomad98 · 22/10/2022 10:22

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 22/10/2022 10:15

Hi all - not sure which thread it was, exactly - if you've got any more info we're happy to take a look. We were made aware of disagreements happening on another platform that had made their way here and derailed a thread.

FWIW, we've no problem with a sex chat thread among consenting adults!

It was just headed online sex chat

everywhichway · 22/10/2022 10:26

FREE THE ONLINE SEX CHAT THREAD!

😘

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Nomad98 · 22/10/2022 10:28

everywhichway · 22/10/2022 10:26

FREE THE ONLINE SEX CHAT THREAD!

😘

I hope it's free.... Can't afford anything else these days

AltitudeCheck · 22/10/2022 10:39

It would be really good if, instead of removing whole threads, MNHQ could post clearly what the issue is and just remove those posts. I an think of 3 threads now that had lots of value content and offers of support/PMs that have just vanished. Even if a thread could be "frozen" so no one can add more but the previous, 'ok', content could stay visible.

For those of us wishing to carry on an interesting conversation we have no choice but to start all over again and risk it becoming a 'taat'.

Previous bi support chat moved off MN for this reason (and unsolicited messages from men) 🤦🏼‍♀️

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