Active discussions

Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Sex

You need to have been registered for 7 days to post in the Sex forum. Please don’t send unwanted PMs to other users.

Original poster

I've surprised myself

27 replies

Jumpking · 04/09/2022 20:40

DP ended things very unexpectedly this morning after a year together. We were getting on really well, but he's now decided he needs some space. Who knows? 🤷

So I've surprised myself by shedding a few tears and going online to see what's out there and I've now got a date on Friday.

Logical me knows it's too soon, but hell I want some fun to get over him.

OP posts:
Original poster
Jumpking · 08/09/2022 20:30

AverageGuy · 08/09/2022 08:28

Good morning all. Thanks for being interested in my life - I'd like to apologise again to @Jumpking for hi-jacking her thread - Sorry!

The five pages didn't change anything, but I didn't expect it too. I just wanted her to know how I felt. We talked for a couple of hours, and I can see why she pulled away from me, and the (many and varied!) mistakes I made during our relationship - some of them situational, and some just plain stupidity on my part.

The meeting wasn't as emotional or painful as I had thought it might be. Talking through things helped, and I feel much better this morning.

So it's onward & upward. Lessons have been learnt (do we ever stop learning?), and today is a new day.

I may be risking falling into a "rebound" relationship, but I'm going back on the dating apps, have a friends birthday party tomorrow, where there will be a mixture of singles & couples, and am planning a couple of other things, so who knows.

And of course, if @Jumpking 's date doesn't work out tomorrow, we can always get together, and cry on each others shoulders or something Smile

I'm glad you got closure. So important. The fact you feel better this morning is proof those 2 hours were worth it.

Looks like you're back on it. Good for you.

I'm not sure I still have a date tbh. The intense messaging stopped when I started my working week... Hard to message between 8.30-5.30. I went out a couple of evenings, so my phone didn't get touched until I got home after 10pm.

Not heard from him at all today and I'm not going to chase him.

I might hold you to the date @AverageGuy 🤣 You anywhere near London?

OP posts:
AverageGuy · 08/09/2022 20:40

@Jumpking more fool him.

Actually, I'm not that far away. I'm not far from Guildford. About 35 minutes into Waterloo.... Smile

I realise this has all been tongue in cheek so far, but why not?

I'll risk sending you a PM.... Absolutely no pressure to respond.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page

This topic prevents users from posting on it until they have been members for at least 7 days.