Men - why a 3some with partner not randoms?

[Brillant]

I would like to gain insight into why a man would like a FMF with his casual partner and an escort.

The partner is not bisexual would prefer him to use 2 bi escorts who can do all he wants to him and one another.

What would make it nicer for him with a casual partner involved?

I would love a ffm or mmf 3 some, and while dw loves the idea too, for her I think it would stay a fantasy.

I wouldnt use an escort, or someone we knew. It would have to be either a swingers party/meet with someone there was chemistry with, or a very unlikely encounter with a stranger.

@Thisismysexforumname thanks. In an ideal fantasty world, would the threesome be better for you if your wife was involved, or would you prefer two strangers you'd met at a party or elsewhere?

In an ideal fantasy world, it would be two particular celebrities 😉

In all seriousness, if I was single I think it would be better to have a rapport/history with at least one of the others. Two strangers could end up being even more awkward, sometimes it was bad enough when single on a ONS with one woman if there was no chemistry/compatibility.

Being married, I would only do it if DW was one of the other females. Even if she gave me a free pass, I think I wouldn't go ahead. Part of it for us both, would be the talking about it before and after. She does have a MMF fantasy as well, so I would hope that if we did get to do one, then we would the other too.

Putting aside the important ethical issues of using escorts, for the purposes of this chat, for me, the thought of the two women only being there for money, and unlikely to not be really into it would always be at the back of my mind.