stockings and tights in bed - really?

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DH and I have been trying to engage in closer understanding of sexual wants and desires - mostly good stuff has happened. One thing he wants is for me to wear nylons when we have sex - ie go to bed in hosiery. Whilst I can understand that sexy clothes are a turn on, it feels silly me. He specifically aightssked for me to wear tights last night - so I did (new pair now laddered). Not only was I too hot it just felt odd to me. He said he enjoyed it. Am I a frump? Do other couples really dress up for sex in their own bed?

He thought tights were hot??? Wow he won't know himself if you get some stockings and a suspender belt!! Wear them out to dinner under a long skirt would be my suggestion and tell him about it over dinner - he won't be able to get you home fast enough!

Dress up for sex in general, sometimes yes, for bed specially, no

Sometimes wear lingerie. I don't sleep in it.

Men are strange creatures indeed!

l’m happy to be helped out of my clothes in the right setting, but I’ve never been one to dress up for the bedroom. I like to be naked and free.

Men are strange creatures indeed!
to be fair, almost all men would say the opposite is true 😂

talk to him more about the hosiery .personally I like my partner to have some cheap tights that may be ripped 😉

He definitely isn't into ripping them (I'd be worried about that) for him it seems to be the feel he likes. I have a suspicion that his desire for them harks back to old girlfriends and early sexual encounters because I don''t generally wear nylons and he has never stroked my nylon covered legs before.
Anyhow, after the discomfort of tights (the only nylons I had), I have ordered some sexy M&S hold-ups to give him a surprise one night. The last time I wore stockings was to a vicar and tarts party in my mis-spent youth so I'll have to try and not giggle.

he may enjoy a body stocking for sex

I enjoy wearing stockings )or dressing up for sex in general) myself. Makes me feel sexier and even the shopping for it, getting ready etc is a turn on for me. Kind of like an ego boost.

I wouldn't sleep in them tho!

I love my lady wearing tights without panties, nibble a hole in them and take it from there, always gets hot and steamy, both parties love the end result.

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FFS

He wants you to wear tights? In bed? Are you sure he doesn't want to wear them himself? And if so, make him buy his bloody own! 😂

And your point is? Each to there own.

Getting dressed up for sex is entirely normal, as the enormous lingerie sections on, say, Ann Summers, shows.

Is it silly? It's a bit of fun. Does that make it silly?

If you ain't tried it, don't knock it.

The feel of my legs rubbing against nylons or stockings when lying in bed is great. Rip or cut a hole and you can get a cross between a slide and a thrust.

Just sayin'......

Totally agree! My wife said exactly the same! Transparenze and Gio are some favourite brands.

Try CDR crotchless tights. Looks great on a lady.