Do women actually enjoy pegging men?

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Reason I’m asking: my partner’s been joking for a while about pegging me. The other night I told her, given she goes on about it so much, should I be taking her seriously? She then admitted it was something she wanted to try with me (but hasn’t done with anyone before).

I’m a open-minded guy and would be willing to give it a go and told her so. Basically assumed this was a fantasy of hers. However, since realised that, as we’d admitted both being bi-curious in the past, that this might be something she’s suggesting because of me, rather than her getting out of it per se? And it strikes me that really it’s the men who get the pleasure not the women.

I only want to try it if it’s a fantasy of hers. I’m not so fussed to try it if she’s in reality a bit “meh, but I’ll do it for him”.

So do any women on here actually enjoy it or do it/fantasise about for themselves as opposed to as a service?

DW enjoys it, partly because i enjoy it so much. She suggests doing it but its mainly when we are away for a night or two. She likes the role reversal and being dominant.

I absolutely love it! And please don't think its just because it pleases my guy... Its ace and if you are both wanting to try it, go for it! If it helps I am bi and he is bi-curious. You don't know where it'll lead ;)

(Male) When I was in my late teens (many moons ago now) I was with a girl that kept going on about using her toys on me, I wasn’t really up for it as sex was still quite new to me at that point, a few months went by and after a night at the pub I let her have her way, I actually quite enjoyed it so it became a regular thing, I have no doubt that it was a massive turn on for her, so yes, I believe some women do get pleasure from it themselves.

I can think of very few things (and that is in life generally, not just in the bedroom!) that l would rather not do.

The thought of it does not turn me on. But each to their own. I'd stick my finger up my partners bum though, but for his pleasure reaction

Me and my partner do some pegging but I've got to be in the right mood to have her insert me. We use smallest strap on attachment available (also don't want something that resembles a real penis) though we recently bought a strapless toy (hook type shape so one end inside her and a vibrating part on her clit leaving the shaft to go inside me. Not had much luck getting inside me as larger than what used to but practice makes perfect.

Speaking as a man , i love it .

But i'm very bi curious and have played around a bit with other men in the past

Thanks everyone for your replies!

Though bit concerned that out of seven replies only one is from a woman saying she likes it (and the other two say they don't!) 😂

My husband and I have attempted it a couple of times and whilst it hasn't been easy to do, it has been an enjoyable experience for us both. We experimented slowly and over time with me using a finger on husband and gradually built up to 2 fingers to then move onto a small bullet shaped toy and eventually took the plunge and bought a strap on that we both could use. He has used it on me (DP) and I have used it on him. He found it difficult to take to begin with, but plenty of lube and patience and we got there in the end. He now understands why I enjoy anal and I enjoy hearing the pleasure he experiences whilst I am pegging him. It feels "wrong" but so right.

Looks like this type of play is on for tonight (his suggestion) Can't wait!

Have a great evening, you lucky pair!

It went great thank you! Used fingers with a condom this time and I definitely found the P spot. His eyes rolled back into his head ;)

Lol I love that feeling!

How does your wife cum from pegging you?

It was 'strapless strapon' that threw me...
I was listening to orggu g paradise lady who ar 62 said she'd never orgasmed from doing it although she loves doing it. She gets 100s of men per day asking her to do it to them.
I think the power play is very interesting. It would turn me on more if a man said 'I want you to do this' than if he said 'I want you to do this if you will be turned on by it'.

I’ve got a new partner and we’ve been doing lots of anal play - I love licking him and using a finger, we started using butt plugs and anal beads, and then he suggested pegging. At first I was apprehensive and said no not yet, but as I carried on thinking about it I got more into the idea. We bought a vibrating ‘strapless strap on’ and some underwear to aid with security - as said above, for me to get some benefit too, and to take the worry out of keeping it in place! Used it for the first time last night and it was amazing. I didn’t come but I was having a brilliant time, he absolutely loved it, and I felt so close to him. Will definitely be doing it again!

I'm looking forward to trying this out with my new sexual partner, he's done it before but I haven't and have been curious about it for years :)

My partner loves it and I enjoy the reaction it gives but I'm bi so I enjoy lots of things others would think a little strange.

I'm curious to try it (as a male) and wife has suggested it but I'm worried about the mess. We did try anal sex on her once but the mess (not pleasant) and difficulty of penetration made us both conclude that bottoms are for one thing only and that is not intercourse.