Advice please, not sure if in right thread.
so I was watching some adult material this evening (on low). I live in a block of flats. My neighbour to my bedroom wall (who I literally never hear any noise from - one women and 2 teen daughters) started blasting load music which they’ve never done before (the Beatles - assuming it was the mother) It stopped about 10 minutes after. I hear general noise from upstairs as they are quite noisy. The neighbours on the other side came up to me when I moved in and wanted to apologise for any noise their tv made as one is quite deaf, sometimes I hear a low hum of a tv but no issue whatsoever! I apologised for my noisy toddler and they said they don’t hear anything! I can hear them if we both have our windows open. It’s a new build less than 20 years old.
my windows are shut tonight, I used to use my vibrator full pelt but when I realised my cupboard didn’t run all the length of the bedroom wall that soon stopped as would have definitely been audible. I have phone calls in the evening though before 11pm, And have my counselling via phone in my bedroom and am now concerned they can hear what I’m saying as that would definitely be louder!
coincidence or polite way to let me know? If so I feel pretty bad as my very noisy toddler loves 5am (sometimes earlier) wake ups and still wakes in the night!