Le Boudoir - anyone been?

[manandbeast]

thinking of going with DP but very unsure what to expect.

im 43 and not in amazing shape. I don’t want to be rejected … does that happen in such places?

How does it all work? Do people introduce themselves, make small talk? Or cut to the chase…?

Its notorious for rejecting non beautiful people.

Oh bugger!!

They require a full length photo of both of you and they do stress elite clientele on their website - over and over and over.......

If you can cope with rejection then go for it and come to Ab Fabs if you don't get accepted

As Groucho Marx said

'I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member'

What is Ab Fabs? Is that a recommendation?

were definitely not committed to one club over another… have one dire experience before so trying not to repeat that!

Ab Fabs is a swingers club not far from Heathrow. If you are in that neck of the woods, also consider Hellfires.

It depends what you are looking for.

Ab Fabs is BIG. It has a "wet" area downstairs, with swimming pool, hot tubs, playrooms, sauna & steam room, and "dry" area upstairs with a bar, disco floor, cinema, dark room, play rooms, glory holes etc. There is a small dungeon on the top floor

Hellfires is smaller and more intimate. No "wet" area, but has a large dungeon, "dogging" vehicle, playrooms and a "school room"

Happy to give more information if required.

Would Ab fabs be good for newbies, and do you need to tick a certain level of attractiveness?

All clubs cater for newbies , Ab Fabs is very good and people are friendly as long as you're not a dick from the off.

Me and my partner would love to try something like this but just haven't managed to pluck up the courage!

@cosmicbabe if just like going to a pub for a drink.

But with optional sex.

Can you go and not do anything or is that frowned upon?

No, there's no expectations on you having to do anything

What it is worth is deciding before you go what it is you're both looking for and make sure you know what each others boundaries are.

The bedhoppers podcast (from the beginning) is full of great info

As far as "attractiveness" is concerned, I've seen all sorts, colours, creeds, sexes, shapes & sizes at both Ab Fabs & Hellfires. What's attractive to one person won't be to another.

Neither club has an "attractiveness" admission policy. Quite shocked Le Boudoir does... Tongue in cheek mode - Wonder if it has any links with Killing Kittens...

Go. You only live once!

Ab Fabs is couples only (and single ladies) on a Saturday, allows single gents all other days, but pre-book for a Friday.

Hellfires has a couples only Saturday once a month, I think. Single gents are allowed in otherwise.

Both clubs have "themed" nights, but I wouldn't put too much stock in the theme.