I am so horny and it's making me miserable

[Furrbabymama1987]

I generally have a high sex drive and I've always been that way but recently I'm struggling. I've developed a crush on a ( really random) guy from a tv show and it's making me suffer. I'm having regular sex with my husband which satisfies me for a while but then my mind wanders off. I'm masturbating several times a day thinking of this gorgeous guy but it's not helping. I've tried not looking at the stuff he posts online but it's like I have to see it to wind myself up. A good libido is a good thing but this is way too intense. I'm starting to think I've got some kind of hormone imbalance.

Sounds like a healthy sexual desire to me.

Thank you. It's like I've got this tense feeling in my stomach all the time, but as soon as I've relieved it, it's building up again.

They say lemon juice can dampen desire so maybe try that? Are you perimenopausal as many get a sex surge those years?

Thanks. I don't think I'm perimenopausal yet. I'm 34. But I was sterilised about 5 years ago and noticed my sex drive decreased for a while, so it could be something to do with that. It's a good thing in those moments while I'm able to get it out my system. It's in between that it's annoying, when I feel in a constant state of arousal and I can't stop looking at this guy. He's like a drug, but if it wasn't him it'd be someone else.

I get like this a lot of the time. Even more so during the warm weather.
There really needs to be a support group for this 😂

Yes tell me about it haha. The crush is completely inappropriate and weird as well so I can't offload in real life. 😑

I'm definitely hornier in the warm weather 🤣
It's off the scale lately 😩

Am I the only one who wants to know who the weird crush is? 😂I do know what you mean though. I haven't had one for a while but a few times over the years I have fixated on someone famous for a bit and it can feel all-consuming. Definitely agree with the hot weather thing too...

I'll pm you

I'm peri menopausal and horny as hell at the moment about an acto and one of his roles. Getting to be a bit of a nightmare at the moment LOL. I'm reading explicit fan fic on him every spare minute I get.

I love fan fiction. Aside from my new crush I also have a huge crush on George Harrison and I often read fanfic on him. Some of it is so dirty. Love it.

George Harrison was beautiful 😍 Mine is David from the lost boys or Keifer Sutherland in general 😋😋😋

I've PM Ed you

It's off the scale lately 😩

What scale is this?

Me too! Had a very low libido for ages and now, 6 months into HRT and I'm insatiable. I feel like a teenager again and it's actually distracting me at work!

Where can I find this fan fiction you speak of?!

wattpad.

I need to know who this is.

I also have a really, really inappropriate crush who I also fantasise about whilst having sex with my husband. Sometimes I feel like I’m in a constant state of arousal!

How do you find Fan Fiction specific to the person you’re crushing on??

I'll PM you

Perhaps you could meet up and get a group rate at one of those cryotherapy places? Won't necessarily cure it but might give you a few hours of respite.

I have a very inappropriate crush at the moment too. Glad to hear it’s not only me (well I know it’s not only me) but that people think it’s normal. Normal to be inappropriate that is!

(NB - not inappropriate in any horrible way, the person is exactly my age, just to put your mind at rest!)