Sex hurts when I’m on top

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I’m 30 years old and sex hurts when I’m on top. It’s not painful but more uncomfortable. It kind of burns a little. It’s always felt like this and I can’t feel any satisfaction at all. I can physically feel the penis inside but it doesn’t feel pleasurable at all. I think my cervix points the wrong way so maybe it’s in the way or sitting lower if I’m on top, that’s all that I can think of.

I can feel pleasure in all other positions just not on top. Even if I try with my fingers it’s almost like I can’t reach high enough. I don’t think I’ve got a prolapse as I’ve never had children and I asked at my smear test and apparently everything is fine. My smear test was laying down I wonder if they would notice a difference if I stood up.

has anyone had this issue ?

I have a tilted cervix, so some positions are painful for me. Missionary and spoon are the most comfortable for me.

Could you try leaning back or at an angle so the sensation changes? If I lean back while on top, it releases some of the depth whilst still feeling tight and I get a bit more clitoral stimulation from it.

And grind rather than bounce. So that way, you're controlling how you want it to go and you're going to have some focus on your clit. But of course if it's not working for you, just don't do it. Some positions aren't going to work for everyone.

Then don't do it?