I'm recently out of a very long term relationship, and never in my life has someone made me orgasm. I'm able to make myself orgasm but usually with great difficulty unless I'm watching porn/listening to some kind of audio.
I'm now seeing someone new, and our sex life is great. The best sex I've ever had, and it generally doesn't actually bother me that I don't reach orgasm as it's so good regardless but it is something I'd obviously like to achieve. I come very very close but it's like my body tenses up and I can't relax enough to release.
Has anyone got any experience with this and can provide me with any tips??? I don't really want to use toys as I think those orgasms aren't quite as powerful/intimate.