Sex with an obese man

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I’ve met someone I click with
He’s attractive intelligent and good company
Only downside is his size
I find him very attractive so it’s not that but physically makes intimacy quite difficult when it comes to actual sex
He’s a beautiful lover and I want to continue but seeking advice on positioning etc as intercourse is really difficult to achieve
Thanks for any advice 😊

You go on top?

His belly makes that virtually impossible

Doggy style or prone bone?

Agree with asking him. He knows he’s obese, he knows it causes problems with sex positions, you acknowledging that isn’t going to be some big surprise. He’ll also know what’s been most effective with previous partners and hopefully be willing to be creative - and if he isn’t, that’s the problem rather than just his size itself.

Reverse cowgirl ?

He’s got to be pretty big for no positions to be possible. I’m sure you on top or him standing and behind you would be fine.

I can almost guarantee that my DP is bigger than yours and for us me on top or reverse cowgirl works fantastically. We just kind of move his tummy up so that I sat under it if you see what I mean. I like the way it keeps my thighs warm! Hahahaha no but seriously the only position I miss is doggy - we just can't make it work.

The Pretzel is another one you could try.

Are you sure on top doesn't work?? If he's flat on his back there should be no problem.

I saw a cartoon on Instagram where it says men with a tummy are best, if you are on top there is extra friction to the right place iyswim...

Having been with super skinny in the past I know actually love being with someone cuddly, all soft and warm.

Both myself and my partner are big at the moment. Haven't always been. It does make things difficult because you haven't got the stamina, and we don't fit together well.
Missionary crushes my rib cage and I can't breath. We find best him standing up and me on the edge of the bed with legs up, or doggy..

What a horrid and unhelpful comment

My dp is all firm tummy and cowgirl is difficult, reverse is fine, we do doggy a lot but him standing with me on the bed. I do like him on top but we don't do it for long.

Probably him standing at end of the bed and your legs up at the edge of the bed opposite him should be doable.