Lady garden - what is the done thing?!

[BootySOS]

Recently re entered the world of sex.

The last time I was single and having new sexual relationships it was 2009 and shaving everything off was what my friends and I did. Hollywood style, I think it's called.

I'm now older and lazier and could really do without the stubble rash. Equally, I'm not that keen on being in a busy salon and seeing a beautician for a wax in close proximity (covid wary). Full on Bush seems a bit unattractive though!? Even trimmed.

Having sex is a mind field.

Is there a current fashion for maintaining pubic hair?

I've truly never understood the full-shave trend (why would you want to look like a child?) Can't speak for men, but as a bi-sexual female, I prefer to have some trimmed/neatly maintained hair and also to see the same on a female partner.

@perimenofertility

I've truly never understood the full-shave trend (why would you want to look like a child?) Can't speak for men, but as a bi-sexual female, I prefer to have some trimmed/neatly maintained hair and also to see the same on a female partner.

I knew someone would come up with the looking like a child comment. It's a ridiculous comment. It's no more looking like a child than shaving armpits or men shaving their faces. Not everything involving hair removal results in looking like a child 🤦🏻‍♀️

Shaven doesn’t look like a child to everyone.
To me, personally - it’s just nicer, cleaner and softer. You can feel the skin. And there is no hairs getting into the teeth 🤭.
And i prefer it both on men and women.

It’s no different to not being ‘natural’ on legs, arms and armpits, in my opinion.

From this man's POV I would say you need to go with what you prefer.

My DW has a regular trim so you don't need a torch and a machete to find anything and I love it.

Good luck!