First time sex with someone new

[Sillawithans]

So, this is happening soon and I'm a little nervous about getting naked.

He thinks I'm beautiful, has told me when the chance of sex wasn't even a possibility which leads me to believe that it's true.

Ive had 3 children, don't have a single stretch marks, decent boobs until I stand up then it's game over.

How can I not show nerves on the night, I definitely have a belly how can I hide this and what on Earth do I do to get rid of my hairy bum in the privacy of my own home 😊

Stop worrying and get on with it. Perfection is not on the menu, passion is.

I pressed send too soon. A condom is more important than the things you are worrying about.

What do you mean until you stand up?

Also, I've recently started a new sexual relationship after 4 years of no sex and only ever sleeping with one person before that ( very LTR) I'm the same as you 3 kids & really not happy with my body. If he is a decent guy he will make you feel beautiful. Just try to relax & enjoy it, I'm sure he's not perfect looking either.

He will be just as worried about his own body/ performance
Just relax and enjoy

With luck yo will be too busy to think about it.
Please come back and tell us, we expect that it will be thumbs up.

Take him at his words, believe it and if you have doubts, fake that self esteem and it'll catch up eventually.

I have 2 kids, I'm curvy and have a wobbly tummy but I've not hidden it and it's not been an issue.

When with my new FWB, as a PP says, he is a good guy who makes me feel amazing for starters and I just don't try and hide. I walk around naked in front of him, don't even consider what I look like in various positions as we're just having so much fun.

And buy sexy undies!

If he fancies you clothed, he will fancy you more naked. He knows what you look like so will have realistic expectations. No one expects anything vastly different to what they get. I'd be more concerned about the hairy bum though to be honest. Like is it actually hairy or do you just mean the light unnoticeable hairs? If it's the latter he probably won't notice.

Just to add, if he seen you dressed a few times, he will have a pretty good idea of what your going to look like naked, and will probably be pretty keen to get hands on / all over you

@Sillawithans

Get some woowoo hair removal creme of Amazon. That will deal with the hairy bum.

That’s one issue solved

Had a great night, don't know what I was worried about.

OP: Lovely. 🌸

@StarlightLady thank you. He kissed every bit of me, especially the bits I was worried about and told me I was gorgeous. That'll do 😊

You shouldn’t have been worried about the bit that was most important to kiss 🌷