How to stop myself coming too soon?

[susiexoxo]

Can't believe I'm writing this but need some advice and tips on how to stop myself climaxing too soon. I've recently started seeing someone and the chemistry is amazing. He's my first relationship for about 3 years.
Last night we played with each other and I literally came within about 5 seconds of him putting his hand down there. I was so embarrassed! Was so wet and turned on, just couldn't help it but because it was the first time of him touching down there I felt a bit awkward to come in 5 seconds flat. How can I last longer next time?

F*ck sake... I wish I had this problem. It takes me ages to reach Orgasm! Sorry that's not much help OP

Oh how very distressing for you op

I would suggest you just enjoy it, carry on and have more. What's the problem?!

If you're embarrassed, have a silent orgasm and let him carry on, the next one should take a bit longer to build up to if you've already come.

Nothing wrong with multiple orgasms.

@furbabymama87

Nothing wrong with multiple orgasms.

This

I've known women cum from just heavy petting and nipple play. It's all part of the fun. Relax and enjoy :)

If it bothers you, you could do what men do? Focus on your partner. With that level of arousal and focus on him, you will no doubt put in a good performance and don’t let him touch you until you are sure he’s satisfied

Good luck and enjoy x

@copydex

If you're embarrassed, have a silent orgasm and let him carry on, the next one should take a bit longer to build up to if you've already come.

This is what I used to do when first with DH. Literally climaxed with one stroke of his hand over the top of my jeans the very first time. I didn’t expect that!

15 years later, I still sometimes struggle to last very long! My DH just laughs in amazement and carries on to give me a second go.

Your partner will love this!

The eight times table

He will most likely think he is a hero and love it
I think most guys love making their partners cum (I certainly do) and a multiple is lovely

From a male POV he will love it…. For me most of the enjoyment is making the lady happy.

It’s strange how we worry about the things that many men mostly enjoy.

@Hyly68

It’s strange how we worry about the things that many men mostly enjoy.

Definitely this

Yeah, definitely that. I know loads of blokes and every one of them would love it.