Is he gay?

[magnifique]

I posted in relationships but there were no responses.
I was questioning my partners sexuality but maybe he is just into certain things and not into others. Could you read and give your thoughts please ?
He loves making me cum, gets a great kick from how wet I get and ensures I finish first. He also loves my boobs.
He doesn't like to give oral and that is not a problem for me as I'm not into it.
He also loves me to rub his bum and insert my finger. I love doing this .
He is easy to arouse and is up and down for hours when we play.
He loves spooning and also doggy position, as do I.
He is unfit with a weak chest and get out of breath really quickly when we do missionary so we tend not to do that. When we do he finishes in seconds or doesn't finish at all as he gets out to do breath .
Sometimes on mn I read that when men are into doggy position and are not into giving oral aswell as liking their bums played with, they scream 'gay'.
Can you give me your thoughts please ?

No just because men like their bums tickled does not mean they are gay. In some countries where selling sex is illegal, brothels still exist where ladies give hand/blowjobs as well as massaging (in various ways) bums. He could be bi (not based on what you said, but there are always chance) but certainly not gay to me.

Thanks for reply.
Based on his dislike of giving oral sex and preferring spoons and doggy position, would that raise a question for you?
I believe it is his breathlessness and lack of fitness that makes these positions easier for him and frankly I find missionary boring which he knows, but who knows ?

My husband loves having his bum fingered and we both love anal (we pretty much do anal every time we have sex) but I can assure you he is not gay. I once saw someone write that anuses are the great equaliser of sexual pleasure because everyone has one no matter their gender. Being attracted to the same gender makes you gay, it has nothing to do with positions or bum.

Thanks. It is t just the one thing but a mixture of different questions I had about his likes and dislikes.

There's nothing in what you've said that suggests he's gay. He might love you fingering his arse, but he wouldn't let a man do it!

I don't get why so many people associate particular sex acts with sexuality, when it's entirely down to who you're with not what you're doing. A straight man would baulk at the thought of receiving a blowjob from another man, even though it's physically exactly the same as a woman giving him one.

Sounds like you have a pretty healthy sex live to be honest! You both sound in good sync on things and I wouldn’t read too much into the gay or not, doesn’t sound remotely gay to me for what it’s worth! Enjoy yourself!

He does not sound gay to me. But not wanting to give oral would personally be a deal breaker. But as that does not concern you, just enjoy what works best for you.

Preferences for certain positions and activities have absolutely nothing to do with sexuality. He's not gay, he just likes butt stuff.

He might be….. but not because he likes him bum hole rubbed and maybe a cheeky finger - it’s lovely from this straight guys perspective.

He definitely isn’t gay. Well he could be but not from the description you’ve given!