Talk to me about sploshing

[Sabrinathemiddleagedwitch38]

NC for obvious reasons.

I found out quite by accident that my partner has a thing for 'sploshing'. He kept it from me but I discovered some videos on his internet history and we had a good chat about it, but he did seem pretty embarrassed about it all.

Fast forward a few months and he is becoming more open which I'm pleased about. We have watched a few videos together before dtd and talked about trying it out together. But when I watch the videos I have to admit I just want to laugh! It doesn't disgust me but seeing women pouring custard over each other just seems really really silly to me. Certainly not sexy, just ridiculous.

I'm not against trying it out for with him but I would like to understand better what people actually get from it. If you or your partner enjoy it, why? What do you find sexy about it? My dp loosely mentioned the humiliation side of it but other than that he can't really vocalise why he likes it, he just does. Is there anyone out there who can explain a little?

It's more important to understand why your partner enjoys it. Can you delve further into his humiliation drive?
I know several people who are into this kink. Some like sitting in cakes, having a giggle and making a big mess. On the other side, I know Doms/Dommes who enjoy it as a humiliation tactic and love seeing subs getting filthy.
It definitely matters why he likes it, sit down with him and ask some non judgemental questions 🍰
And if you're actually going to do it I recommend big tarps, kiddie pools and a runway of towels to the showers 😉

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Wasn't there a thing for chocolate body paint 20 or so years ago?

Yes, but it was never very good quality chocolate , at least the stuff I used wasn't.

Maybe baby oil will create a similar feel, without so much mess?