He looks bored and it puts me off

[ThenTheRain]

I’m sorry if this is TMI but when my boyfriend is pleasuring me with his fingers, if i open my eyes he’s looking around the room looking bored. This doesn’t make me feel good and then it ends up taking longer.

Is this normal? It makes me sad that he’s bored. He denies that he is but he’s clearly not into it is he?

He might be concentrating ?I will often look into the middle distance if I'm trying to work something out - nor sex related

Probably thinking about his team selection for Sundays Euro Final lol

Dont worry too much if hes actually hitting the spot and isnt just going through the motion of it.

My dh always looks like he's overly concentrating and isn't in the zone at all. It's a real turn off for me if I'm honest.
It also doesn't help that I can direct him/tell him what to do, where to stop when to speed up etc and he'll do it for about 15s before he starts moving somewhere else.
Makes it all feel like a chore

Been there. Seen that face. And thought "Why are you bothering?"
If you're going to go down on someone or masturbate them, at least look like you're enjoying it. And if you're not, fake it. If you're not enjoying their pleasure, what's the point?
On the other hand, to quote a pornstar I once heard interviewed on Radio4, "I've seen my cum-face, and I don't look like I'm enjoying it."