Hotel surprise what should it be

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My partner works half an hour away from work or if he’s at mine it’s an hour for our anniversary we are off to London as our theatre trip got postponed but for our actual anniversary on the 1st of July I’ve decided to book a hotel in the city he works in close to work so we can have some dinner and Breakfast in bed before he goes to work. I will be at the hotel before he gets there and wanted to answer the door and surprise him obviously some sexy lingerie is needed but what else or what kind of lingerie he hasn’t got any sexual costume fantasy ideas. There’s a really big famous sex shop near by so hopefully will pop in before and get some new toys any toys you recommended that your partners love we have some already. I just want him to open the door and be like wow and instantly want me

Ok just to manage expectations... if he is coming straight from work, he may be a bit knackered or flustered etc so you might not have the desired effect!

You might instead want to check in beforehand and then later meet at the hotel bar. Have a relaxed drink, hand him a second room card key and ask him to come up to the room in 30mins (maybe hint to him what he can look forward to). That way he will be more relaxed, enjoying another drink and have the anticipation of you getting ready...

Also, if he doesn't have any particular preferences or fantasies - what underwear or outfits make you feel fantastic? What would turn you on to be wearing when he walks through the door?

The answer to this might be a latex outfit, a corset, a pretty underwear set or just nothing at all...!

Thanks I’m going to have a look online he likes me in black so something black possibly something from agent provocateur

Just popped on to say fantastic advice from Snoops !

Thanks I think he would rather straight after work as that’s when he always wants sex as soon as he gets straight in from work he wants me then we go for dinner come back and try round 2

Just to echo Great advice from Snoops !, very envious for him

Think I’ve found an outfit will try and link it later

+1 for snoops idea as it builds anticipation

www.agentprovocateur.com/joan-suspender-237

I like this as an outfit

He dosnt really drink and neither do I he also prefers sex straight away was thinking then we could go for dinner after and then build more suspense for round 2

O I am thinking of doing this on my next night away with new partner. Did not know what to expect the 1st time but he definitely would go for that idea . Let us know how it goes. Very exciting.

Wow to the outfit ..I think you're both gonna have a good time ..

Thank you will let you all know how it goes

Personally for me a thong or fuller pantie and the bra. Stocking and suspenders get me frustrated

Just putting this out there and forgive me if I sound like a party pooper, but are you not setting yourself up for a bit of a fall here?

What if he's not in the mood, is stressed, has had a bad day and just wants to relax?

Setting everything up on the basis that he'll finish work and automatically be up for sex might be a bit presumptuous is all I'm saying.

I know that if I did the same in reverse for my wife, the pressure of expectation, plus the high chance of her just not being in the mood would make it a bit of a gamble of whether she'd be interested - anniversary or not.

Unless of course you're confident he'll be up for it.

I have thought about that but he’s very sexual he wants sex daily and so do I he’s very into stuff like this so him opening the door to me will excite him very much

Men are shallow and visual creatures. If it was my DH it would be something like a black or red basque, stockings and sussies with the basque being open fronted and fully waxed or shaved. However, he would like the build up before in a bar and then dinner rather than straight for it

His favourite colour on me is black so will definitely be wearing that with the whole works will also suprise him after dinner to with something

I did something similar once although was a date night at home, not a hotel. If you are up for a second round, then if you have a vibrator then give him show. He had bought us one we hadn't used (it was rather large!) and I never had enough confidence to use myself in front of him...but after too many wines and having done round one and recovering, I was still full of semen so well lubed, and started using the vib which went inside me more easily....nearly blew his brains and soon saw him start getting hard again.

Yes I have a vibrator I have loads I have quite a collection of sex toys