How can he get better at oral

[Athrawes]

I have a very wonderful lover. The PIV sex is great but, being an older man, he isn't always up for a repeat performance within the time we have together.
He is very willing to go down on me, he wants to, enjoys it, but...isn't very good at it. I have tried to give him directions but I don't seem to be able to tell him what to do. His fingers and tongue are not my fingers, the pressure is not the same. I'd love for him to get to work and it all go off with a bang, as would he.

Practice makes perfect...lots of guidance from you and I'm sure he will improve

The tongue is a great tool as it has the ability to change shape and density and so can adapt to needs

I repost my list of things a man can do to improve his oral skills.

1. Get a donner kebab and eat the meat and salad without eating the pitta bread

1. Bite the top off a Creme Egg and scoop out the middle with your tongue

1. Hold a Tic-Tac between your teeth and practice flicking it with your tongue.

1. Hold a tissue up to your mouth and practice shaping your tongue round and then punch a hole through the tissue.

Men don’t listen. But their ears do have a function. It’s to manoeuvre them.

Try getting him to sort of suck whilst using his tongue, it increases pressure and I've generally recieved a good reception with that technique, he will need to mix it up abit though.

I am in the same situation OP. I’d love to experience an orgasm through oral.

OMG @MisterT373, I have to say that numbers 3 & 4 on your list made me totally recoil... 🤢🤮... suffice to say each to their own 😅

Could try the humour from this scene ...

Other ideas - spell out letters;
if he hums it may feel better (Since that makes the tongue vibrate a lot), but hard not to feel a bit silly doing it!

Buy him a copy of She Comes First. Great book for all things cunnilingus.

I thought the spell out letters thing definitely didn't work because it stood m stops you doing the same thing over and over.

Well I marvelled at how amazing my last BF was at it. He said he spells out the alphabet with his tongue. I don't think he always did that but it's a start. But really, men have to generally guage response, and when they get a good one, repeat, and repeat, until ...

@Athrawes Are you giving him any direction when he's going down on you?
Or it might sound an odd question, but do you think you could show him? Could you perform the sort of cunnilingus you want on his hand? Just a thought.