I told my ex partner (while we were together) that I was sexually assaulted by someone we know. He’s not friends with the person but they know each other. Behind my back, while I was pregnant, he had a conversation with this person and asked them if they really did sexually assault me. Obviously the person denied it, he never told me he asked. I knew they had a conversation but my partner told me something entirely different from what was actually said.
The person who assaulted me was my landlord at the time. I went to pay rent in cash one day his first question to me was “why did you tell”. So I instantly knew what had happened.
I broke up with my partner that day and months later I asked him why he did that. His answer was “I wanted to get to the truth. You may be the kind of person that believes everything you’re told but I’m not so I wanted to know for myself if it was true”. 🙃 he doesn’t see anything wrong with what he did.
I’m interested to know peoples opinions on this