Help me have this conversation

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Apologies if this is tmi but I need some advice - hopefully from some men as well.

I want to ask DH if he would use a penis extender - he is of average size but since having DC I just feel like I'd like a bit more inside me. I've had a look on love honey and there seem to be a few that have good ratings and I would like to get one to try.

What I don't want to do though is to in anyway make DH feel inadequate or not enough.

So, what I'm asking is if you have had that conversation with your DP or they have had it with you - how did it go? And if you have tried an extender what did you think, would you recommend one?

We do use sex toys and to me it would just be another one but I want to make sure he does too....

I had one years ago with a vibrating end. Never actually used it as the motor in the end made it hang down.

What I used to do though was put it on and look at myself naked in a full length mirror without my contact lenses in and compliment myself for having such an enormous cock.

@MisterT373 😂😂😂😂

I can't understand why you think this would possibly enhance your relationship ?
Each to their own I guess .

@MisterT373

I had one years ago with a vibrating end. Never actually used it as the motor in the end made it hang down.

What I used to do though was put it on and look at myself naked in a full length mirror without my contact lenses in and compliment myself for having such an enormous cock.

Hahahhaaaaaaa

In all seriousness though, I bought one (as part of a big order, as PP suggested) and whilst DH loved it, I did not. It was just not 'him' and took the enjoyment out of it.

I now do my kegels regularly and have special balls for this instead. We play around with 'how big' in other ways.