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What lingerie, first time

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hamster99 · 14/02/2021 19:36

First time with lingerie, not first time having sex!

My concern is my boobs are small. I'm slim, size 10 but 4 breastfed kids took their toll. I have ordered this but not sure if it'll look ridiculous with small boobs. What sort of style/type should I go for?

www.lovehoney.co.uk/sexy-lingerie/lingerie-sets/bodies-teddies/p/lovehoney-serenity-black-lace-plunge-body/a44304g79880.html

OP posts:
Rustyman · 15/02/2021 13:43

For me its always about feeling confident and sexy. it should empower you and disarm your partner.
Good luck, i'm sure you'll look great either way

nonflirtinghusband · 15/02/2021 14:44

I think that looks really nice @hamster99. I'd go for it and I'm not particularly big of boob.

PinotPony · 15/02/2021 15:24

I think small boobs suit that style of body. You wouldn't necessarily get away with it if you had huge boobs as there's no support.

Ann Summers do some lovely bodysuits and the quality is really good compared to several years ago...

www.annsummers.com/lingerie/bodies/?page=5

Alexandra2018 · 15/02/2021 16:22

That’s really nice!
I usually pick one with a elastic bit if that makes sense you know for boob support?

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hamster99 · 15/02/2021 16:51

Ooh thanks, that's a relief.

Now HOW do I do this? What if he's 'meh'? I have no idea if he'll like it or not.

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StarlightLady · 15/02/2021 17:11

I think nice lingerie is important, it makes me feel good when l get dressed each morning. And some would argue l spend too much on it. But l never choose anything as a bedroom exclusive.

For me, it also has to look good and feel comfy under my dress or jeans during the day. 👙

nonflirtinghusband · 15/02/2021 17:18

I agree with Starlight. I'd let him get a glimpse when you put it on in the morning, then he'll be thinking about it all day.

PinotPony · 15/02/2021 19:19

@hamster99

Ooh thanks, that's a relief.

Now HOW do I do this? What if he's 'meh'? I have no idea if he'll like it or not.

Have you got a nice robe or something similar that you could undo in a sexy manner to reveal the gorgeous lingerie underneath. I'm thinking loads of eye contact and a naughty smile on your lips! He'll be putty in your hand! 😉
MisterT373 · 15/02/2021 20:16

Not that you probably don't usually but smell fantastic too. Intoxicate your man with a sexy evening scent .

GentlemanJay · 15/02/2021 23:04

I really like that. Very classy. Please don't think that having smaller boobs make you less sexy. Feeling sexy is in your head not inside your bra.

B1rdflyinghigh · 15/02/2021 23:35

Browse Amazon. Lingerie like that is half the price of lovehoney... even with discount.
He'll be excited, there won't be any need for lingerie!

PermanentTemporary · 19/02/2021 23:01

Looks great. As to how you do it... if it makes you feel good and excited to wear it, tell him so. And I agree with giving a flash, and then asking him if he'd like to see more. Basically make him beg...

Christmasfairy2020 · 21/02/2021 10:34

Pair of black stocking and hold ups and pvc bra. Avoid anything that goes over crotch as it irritates

MintyCedric · 22/02/2021 23:44

That's lovely and trust me, as someone who is large of norks, it will look much better for you having smaller ones!

Heatheroo · 04/03/2021 17:33

What suits you best is whatever you feel good in. Fashion is dictated by other humans, so might be right, and who wants to follow the flock anyway? You'll look lovely in your lingerie and feel good too so stop caring what others think or say and do whats good for you! Smile

Heatheroo · 04/03/2021 17:35
  • Might NOT be right
exaltedwombat · 04/03/2021 18:12

Man here. Don't bother. We appreciate the thought, but unless there's a particular fetish going on we're probably just trying not to laugh. Now, answering the door, naked except for a fur coat...

Leodot · 04/03/2021 18:51

@exaltedwombat So because you’re not into it then men aren’t into it and are trying not to laugh? Massive generalisation there...

Blokenamechangesexboard · 04/03/2021 19:19

@exaltedwombat

Man here. Don't bother. We appreciate the thought, but unless there's a particular fetish going on we're probably just trying not to laugh. Now, answering the door, naked except for a fur coat...
... he'll laugh out loud?

Ignore - few things better in life than sexy undies on a woman and your choice looks ace.

Natalialikes · 05/03/2021 16:19

@exaltedwombat

Man here. Don't bother. We appreciate the thought, but unless there's a particular fetish going on we're probably just trying not to laugh. Now, answering the door, naked except for a fur coat...
Dont listen to this. I have a lot of sex with a lot of people and during my important research i have concluded that MEN...LOVE...LINGERIE The most popular like is suspenders and heels.

Who the hell owns a fur coat these days anyway.

BlackSabbath · 05/03/2021 16:56

Man here. Don't bother. We appreciate the thought, but unless there's a particular fetish going on we're probably just trying not to laugh. Now, answering the door, naked except for a fur coat

Dont tarnish all men with the same brush, thanks. What do you mean WE appreciate the thought but don't bother? Millions of men fucking love it

CoraPearl · 08/03/2021 20:09

Buy it if you like it and if it makes you feel good, after all, you need to feel great in it and that should be all that matters.

Lingerie should always be bought for you, and no-one else. But, if you want to buy something for a man, either ask him what he likes or keep it simple. Experience has taught me that most men like to see skin and prefer a really simple lace bra and matching knickers, usually in black or white.

(I'm an escort and like to think I know a lot about lingerie and what men like. I have a vast collection of lingerie, and it is always the simple fine lingerie they want to see, not the bodies, corsets or stockings)

Sparkybloke · 08/03/2021 20:28

Man here....I absolutely love lingerie...nothing more likely to drive me wild...DP is just gorgeous in something sensual...and to the OP....I'd say the link to the suggested lingerie is lovely....your man will love you in it I'm sure...

GeorgeOhWell · 08/03/2021 22:20

@exaltedwombat. That is a very sweeping generalisation and I suspect that you aren't speaking for a sizeable proportion of the male population. Companies like Agent Provocateur make lingerie designed to make women feel stylish, sexy and confident. Is it be possible that the women who buy the lingerie not only want to enjoy feeling these things but also because they know their partners enjoy them as well?
OP, if it makes you feel good, go for it and enjoy.

RosieBenenden · 09/03/2021 10:03

You will look stunning. I am 46 and small boobs - 36A so choose lingerie carefully but if a good cut and shape size isnt an issue. I started wearing lingerie for DH during first lockdown as weve used sex as a way of destressing. I suggest keeping the underwear on through foreplay as gives an extra frisson. Also, i found a nice thong / g string and bra arouses us both. Maybe engage massage oil too when you masturbate DH and ask him to massage your boobs too?

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