Large labia

[LostStars39]

Hello
I was wondering if I could get some male and female opinions on what you think of women with larger labia than normal?

From a men’s point of view if it puts you off or makes sex difficult or oral sex not as nice?

And women if you ever have any pain during sex or ever found it an issue?

I’ve recently broken up my ex who I was in a long term relationship with and he never found it an issue but I’m now thinking about when I next have sex with someone new and I feel so insecure!

Divorced my ex used to say my large labia were like a "fuck tube" as they clung to his penis

I've never had any complaints & although larger than average I'm happy with mine

@j712adrian
"I saw that programme too, I thought it was tragic. So many blokes would treat that like a Christmas present."

Well yes but I suppose it's difficult to judge when not in that position. I'm the archetypal "Barbie" look below and yes I'm (when not in lockdown) waxed. In bed my DH compliments me ...says he loves my neat little slit. Not sure how I would feel if I was larger but clearly some women get upset about it. I suppose if I had large lips and DH was saying that to me I would be upset? I assume he wouldn't!

I guess it is another version of some women wanting larger boobs and feeling they should have implants....I would love mine to be bigger but no way would I have that done to my body.

@Wherearemymarbles

If they hang down to your knee’s then maybe go see someone!!

Otherwise i dont think men are that bothered - they'll be far more worried about whether they can get it up and if you think its too small!

Look up the great wall of vagina, you can see casts of all sorts!

Ugh. The opening line. What a horrid thing to say.

In my experience, all good!

I'm bi so seen a few examples and I'd actually say large labia are a turn on not a turn off , and apparently there more common than people believe.

Thank you so much for all your comments, it’s been a massive confidence boost! I guess it’s just accepting it as part of myself and if anyone ever says anything it’s their loss

As others have said....you are as you are and will be fabulous. Like many men I love large labia. They look sexy and are extremely arousing...us men are visual creatures...

@LostStars39

Thank you so much for all your comments, it’s been a massive confidence boost! I guess it’s just accepting it as part of myself and if anyone ever says anything it’s their loss

You shouldn't feel self conscious about having them.

You are extremely lucky to have them!

In light of this thread ... are tiny labia a turn off then or not as 'sexy'?

No mooncats.....all labia are beautiful. Any man privileged enough to be allowed near yours (or anyone's) will just love what he sees. And I'm certain yours will have the desired effect IYKWIM.

Frankly if the first thing you think when a lady wants you to give her some cumuloninbus is ooh what big labia, there's something wrong.

For one thing, it would involve thinking more than wahey! (slightly more grown up thoughts are available. Honest)

@mooncats

In light of this thread ... are tiny labia a turn off then or not as 'sexy'?

They are all amazing x

75% of women have labia minora that protrude. It's is the default setting if you like.
In my experience men absolutely love protruding labia minora as they are very visually arousing and feel good during sex for both parties.

I have larger labia that are not 'neatly tucked' my first partner used to call them meat curtains etc. My second partner did the same, despite being an older man. This stuck with me for life and I always felt so self conscious and insecure. Not being able to let others in or feel confident to have sex with a partner. Despite looking online and seeing that people say it's ok, it was always hard for me. I never felt confident to embrace what I wanted in bed. It drained my whole self confident tbh. But after being in yet another abusive relationship I sought counselling (for other reasons too ) but now I have found the confidence to embrace and express what I like and that shows in body confidence and sexual confidence. I don't know if I'll ever be as confident as the next person but it's a massive improvement. If they don't like it then that's on them. We're all unique

Don't worry I can honestly say I've never seen 2 the same .Unless its dragging on the floor doubt anyone would care.