Womanizer

[BergamotMouse]

So I've just had a womanizer delivered which I ordered whilst feeling particularly adventurous.

Since then my adventurous side has diminished and it feels a lot of money for something I might not like.

Generally trying to find my sexual side again after 2 kids but most of the time I feel too worn down to bother .

So the question is - do I open it and will it transform my life?

---

If you've found this page in your search of affordable sex toys and essentials that have been recommended by fellow Mumsnet users, you might find our guide to the best cheap sex toys useful. Hope this helps! MNHQ

I like mine but I dont use it all the time. I could get addicted to it. It's a guaranteed orgasm but sometimes it gets me there too fast and it's nice to vary things 😁

Do it! It won't take long...

That's true! And be careful how high you turn it. I went up high the first time I tried it and nearly blacked out 😂

I use a Satisfyer which is similar but a lot less expensive , it is my go to and is great , enjoy and report back , my bullet vibrator is redundent since I got mine around 18 monthe ago , enjoy and enjoy .

Open it!
Put a towel down!
Enjoy!

I didn’t like it. No slow build up.

So I opened it . It wasn't what I expected. Took a while to get there but don't think I had it positioned quite right. The build up to the orgasm had me moaning like I never have before but there didn't seem to be a peak so it wasn't the most satisfying orgasm. But it seemed to affect my hearing afterwards .

So all good but think I need a bit more practice

Try to keep going after that first underwhelming one! This toys makes me multiple like nothing else ever has! Total bliss!! Also makes me squirt which I had never experienced before

I tried again and couldn't even get there at all! It's like I can get close but not tip over. Feeling frustrated now.

which is how this all started

Funnily enough I bought a womaniser when I was in a similar situation orgasmwise. I had some counselling (I am lucky to have a close friend who is a councellor) and that sorted me out. I had stuff going in in my head that was stopping me fully relax and fully enjoy sex.

@BergamotMouse
The womaniser is amazing but the problem can be is that it is so intense and therefore quick, I guess it may not always work for some. .

For me I prefer a slow build up so when DH wanted to experiment with a vib we started with one that he could use in me inside as well as outside. Made for a relaxing but amazing build up. When he bought the Womaniser he still used the normal vib inside but as things built up he used the Womaniser. Christ was it intent and brought god knows how many moans and tears to me. I'm not sure I would want to get there very quickly and for me it wouldn't be as enjoyable.

Suggest you try the slower build up to relax?

When I use mine with DH plenty of foreplay and clit play from him ,the use Statisfyer often within carefully fingering my g spot, after I come he will often f%%k me which is the icing on the bun for me .
Carry on everyone and enjoy .

Interesting! I've been going to ask about toys in general, as I've never used anything at all, and wondered if vibrators were really any better than straight forward diy. Having not had any sex for ten years with dh, I'm pretty much an expert at the old diy now. So what difference does a good vibrator make? And do you not just feel sad afterwards that you have to do this on your own instead of having a man (or woman) do it for you????

@WakingUp55643 - Why not treat yourself to a little Durex bullet, which you can pick up at many branches of Boots etc (usually next to the condoms) for around £10 and see how you get on.

In normal times(!), I travel a lot for work and one goes everwhere with me. It slips in a makeup bag and so quiet, it purrs.

I don’t think it would make you sad, I enjoy regular 1:1 celebratiions in bed, but l still enjoy my little buzz most, almost every, morning before l get up, it sets me ip for the day, when l am not quite awake enough to focus on someone else.

Regardless of other friendships my “me time” is important to me. The needs are different.

If you get on with a cheap vibey you can then consider more expensive options. The small size means it’s ever so manoeuvrable to the exact spot. And yes, I’m quite dab handed too, but I wouldn’t miss my morning buzz wake up call; it’s a lovely way to start the day. Some men can seem threatened by vibrators though.

Sets me “ip” for the day = Sets me up for the day. Fortunately I’m better at my early morning buzz than l am typing.

And do you not just feel sad afterwards that you have to do this on your own instead of having a man (or woman) do it for you????

Well since I don't have a queue of decent, attractive, single men beating my door down i don't give it much thought .

I love mine. It does take a bit of getting use to and I tend to use a different one to begin with and the Womaniser to finish off.

A really good orgasm can give you a temporary bout of tinnitus!

Yep, I've had a few deafening incidents when it's worked right, @mintyCedric ;)

I bought one. It either makes ladies hit the roof or had an effect like tickling them.

I got one and don’t really like it. Always go back to my rabbit.

@WakingUp55643

Interesting! I've been going to ask about toys in general, as I've never used anything at all, and wondered if vibrators were really any better than straight forward diy. Having not had any sex for ten years with dh, I'm pretty much an expert at the old diy now. So what difference does a good vibrator make? And do you not just feel sad afterwards that you have to do this on your own instead of having a man (or woman) do it for you????

I think the sadness is the issues with your marriage not the possibility of sex toys

@WakingUp55643
Toys are great. Either solo or with your partner. Your situation sounds rather sad though🙁