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So, fabswingers...

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CurvyInAllTheWrongPlaces · 27/12/2020 18:19

I was having a good read of some of the threads on here today and made an account with fabswingers, got quite a few replies, but why so many dick pics?
Is it always like that??

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Ifitsamouse · 27/12/2020 19:22

Yep. Nature of the beast
And if you were to look at female profiles you’d see as many boobs and nearly as many fanny pics.

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CurvyInAllTheWrongPlaces · 27/12/2020 19:31

Well I guess so! But bloody hell, people are not shy, that's for sure!

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Ifitsamouse · 27/12/2020 19:41

Nope!! Plenty of men and women have close ups of their genitalia as their profile pics!

MisterT373 · 27/12/2020 20:01

Shotgun tactics- send enough pics and you might get a hit. Its not a place where personality is the main thing people are looking for.

Also there are the 'size queens' who won't consider anything below average.

heartlikepaper · 27/12/2020 20:25

im on fab 8 weeks, seen more dicks than in all my life before. if you write in your profile no dick pics you get less, and also you dont feel bad deleting any dicks who send them.
For every 100 messages, you may find one gem. Its a real eye opener you have to know what you want and be prepared to wade through for a while! It can be great fun, and very confidence building too

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CurvyInAllTheWrongPlaces · 28/12/2020 10:53

Well Mister, that's true and I've learnt a new phrase, 'size queens'.

heart, yes same here, so many pics. Thanks for the tip, I will update my profile.
Yes very confidence building.
I had a few private chats last night, which were interesting.

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Arnoldthecat · 28/12/2020 19:09

Its largely a fake waste of space website.

FemChat34 · 29/12/2020 10:21

Fabswingers, I didn’t go much on it and only lasted half a day before I deleted it. The constant stream of dick pics, the strange requests, the crude messages, I was asked on more than one occasion if I liked cream pies, if I was taking contraception, if I could handle a 9 inch cock, if I’d be up for a gang bang, if I’d sell some of my used knickers, some too rude to write on here, the list was endless!

PinotPony · 29/12/2020 10:54

I found the guys on FAB to be incredibly disrespectful and grim. I don't have the time to wade through all that nonsense.

Joined KK instead and met a whole load of lovely guys who make the effort to get to know the women. Plenty of filth still but in a naice polite manner!

SuperJan · 29/12/2020 12:25

Treat it as a simple filter. Dick pic straight off = block and ignore.

MisterT373 · 29/12/2020 12:53

Female friends have shared posts they have received and some are pretty vile and repulsive.

SortingItOut · 29/12/2020 16:08

You just need to filter out the ones you dont want, I agree that some men are really forward/grim/weird but in amongst the dross are some actual nice guys.

If you dont like dick pics put that on your profile and if you still get them delete the message without responding.

You can also filter out those who arent verified, those who are mew, those outside your age range.

Please be careful about those who are fab single and those who are properly single...unless you dont care about people who are in relationships (which some dont)

I've met a great guy off there, was just FB to start and now we're in a relationship (15mths in)

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CurvyInAllTheWrongPlaces · 29/12/2020 17:54

Well yes there were plenty of dick pics and the like, but sorted that out with filters.

I have had a couple of lovely conversations with a couple of guys.
It all seems to be going ok. Very respectful, well so far!

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Ifitsamouse · 29/12/2020 18:04

Another tip,
Just Ignore all the messages and search the profiles as you would other dating sights.

All of the 6 men I contacted on fab said the same - I was the 1st person who had made the 1st contact and that women didn't seem to search profiles.
Non of the 6 had dicks in their profile photos.

Arnoldthecat · 29/12/2020 18:19

Did you know that FS posts 200 "new" female profiles every single day,365 days a year? My bet is that a good 60-70% of them are posted by saddo males who get kicks out of it ,or the system generating fake profiles for mug males to chase. No woman with an ounce of intelligence should be on there and would fare better on a proper dating site.

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CurvyInAllTheWrongPlaces · 29/12/2020 18:35

Thanks for the tip Ifitsamouse

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riceuten · 29/12/2020 19:36

A friend of mine discovered her husband had been on Fabswingers for quite some time, which explained his numerous absences for impromptu "business meetings" she'd long been suspicious of. A check on his internet history and the autofilled password opened up the full vista of horror for her. I will spare you the gory details, but he was putting her at some risk. And the story doesn't end there. He moved out to be with one of the women he met there, and couldn't shake the habit, and 3 years later, she has now kicked him out.

SortingItOut · 30/12/2020 06:38

@Arnoldthecat
Thanks for saying I'm not intelligent 🙄
Why cant intelligent women go on Fab to find casual sex?
I was on dating sites to find casual sex (as I didnt want a relationship after a bad marriage) but found that the majority of men actually wanted a relationship with me and thought they could change my mind hence I went on to Fab.

I would never have joined Fab if I wanted a relationship.

Every one is allowed to do whatever they like and just because you dont agree with Fab doesnt mean others cant like it.

Mxflamingnoravera · 30/12/2020 06:56

@Arnoldthecat any woman with an ounce of intelligence will make up their own mind about fabswingers and whether it's what they want to use to meet their needs.

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CurvyInAllTheWrongPlaces · 30/12/2020 14:23

Well I agree, I can make my own mind up too.
I'm an intelligent woman and we all have needs.

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heartlikepaper · 30/12/2020 23:35

@Arnoldthecat spare us your judgements

GentlemanJay · 01/01/2021 21:57

I've been on Fab Swingers for about five years. In that time I've met some lovely people. Some have become significant parts of my life.

Some have become firm friends without anything more. No sex just friendship. One has become a great walking friend. Yes really!

In those five years I've never sent one d... pic. Maybe that's why I've met those lovely people.

It's simple ladies. Every time someone sends you a d... pic or an offensive message. Just block. That way you will slowly weed out that type of person.

If anyone fancies chatting on there, my profile name is the same as here.

Happy Fabbing!

PermanentTemporary · 02/01/2021 00:05

I've spent time on both Adultfriendfinder and Fabswingers. Fabswingers was better for more local people to me, and was more 'down to earth' (a lot more smokers, including, annoyingly, in those who say they don't smoke). The people I chatted to on Fab were friendlier and not surprisingly, more into threesomes, generally a bit kinkier, whereas on AFF I found more men who would take any kind of sex they could get, but also more men who were good at messaging/text sex. Both sites were likely to lead to dick pics but in that environment I don't particularly mind tbh. I met a couple from Fab and one bloke - in both cases I had a good time. AFF I was on for longer so met more people on there, including one chap I was in touch with sexually for about 18 months. Some people are nice, some aren't...

NCforSexForum · 05/01/2021 11:14

I don't understand women on Fab NOT wanting to see at least one dick pic - I've got a husband, I'm looking for dick 

PicaK · 05/01/2021 16:28

Hide your profile the second you join.
Avoid anyone not verified

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