What little things drive you wild?

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Just that really? What random little things turn you on?
For me.. anything to do with my neck. Kissing, licking, biting
Being pinned down - with hands or physically with his body (this is only because we’ve been together 20 years and it’s totally consensual - I would freak out if I didn’t have the trust aspect)
Dirty talk - this surprises me but it has an amazing effect on me during.

Personally I like feeling his strong arms around me, he kisses my neck a lot during too which I love. Usually enjoy a bit of choking too but that has dwindled since having DS (9 mo) which is a shame...

Choking scares me, it’s a hard limit atm. Hand over my mouth is erotic though.

When he looks into my eyes as he enters me Gets me every time .

My hair, whether that’s stroking it whilst cuddled up, just pushing it away from my face when we’re talking or holding and pulling it during sex, it drives me wild.

Kissing in general. Biting my next. Stoking my back

His hand around my throat (firm but gentle). Dirty talk. Me lying on my front, him lying on top of me...I love feeling the weight of him. Him telling me when he's going to come. And, above all, a good hard fuck

Him tying me to the bed, arms to bed post, legs together and him touching me and gradually using his knee to force my legs open and talking dirty to me. Look me straight in the eyes when he plunges inside me

Sends me wild. Just wish he would do it more really

All of the above. It’s been way too long! Fucking pandemic lol. And not to mention a hard slap on the ass while fucking

Love an arse slap. Unfortunately the dog takes this as a sign to jump up onto the bed with us which somewhat ruins the atmosphere.

When he pulls my hair . Every single time

Oh yes being tied up! Instant hotness!

New one for me this week was foot kissing/nibbling, I honestly wouldn’t have thought it would do anything for me. It was amongst general body worship though which turns me to a horny pile of goo lol

Sound - words, breathing, music sometimes. I LOVE dirty talk but I want description not insults which seems to defeat a lot of guys. Yes to necks and hair - i literally prickle with desire when someone touches my scalp or holds or combs my hair (tricky at the hairdressers). Eye contact. Telling me anything positive about my body. Telling me what his cock is feeling. Oh shit.

When he pins me down and kisses my neck roughly and also my ears. Feels like an orgasm for the head.

Omg, I am so missing out in life :(

um I didn't say I get these things! I had a year of crazy hookup sex and at least i know what I like now.

I saw the headline and came on here to post "People who say insensitive things to other people but are hyper sensitive to comments about them" but, having read the comments so far, I won't post that. 😊

You are my people and I'm lucky to say all of the above on a regular 🤤

Neck kisses, partner’s strength and feeling small/vulnerable/looked after. In a trusting relationship, spanking 🙈

The idea of chocking and being tied up scares me!!!

Brilliant 🤣🤣🤣

Husband tickles my inner thighs, then works his way up to my groin with really soft caresses until I'm begging him to do the same to my labia. Then he does and I'm wet within seconds.

I have missed out on the arse slap.
The real rough hard fuck is a winner for me. But only if in the right mood. It has taken years before I could convince him I wanted it harder, harder. He didn't want to really hurt me.

When the mood is right I like an arse slap/ spanking, and after 8 years of marriage I now like a slap in the face when I’m in the right mood ( not really hard and definitely not hard enough to make me go red, but it’s so primal and very out of character for both of us). But I love having my husband scratch his nails up my back while I am on top of him!

Definitely a hard fuck when I’m super horny! Especially when I’m led on my front with my bum raised slightly and he’s behind me.
Or teasing on top of my knickers for ages with his fingers, gets me soaking every time.

What a lovely thread! I'd like to meet all of you!!

I think consent is a really important one to note. I've not done most of these things, but I'd be happy to have a try if asked!

I think being 'in the mood' and 'in the heat of the moment' are really important.

I think it takes a lot for people to post about things that they have realised really do it for them. Maybe it's easier to write it out to strangers than say to your husband and wife? Kudos to all who have managed it though. I applaud you!

Things that drive me wild:

• a flash of "what lies beneath" - could be a nice bra strap or a stocking top
• a glimpse of cleavage from an undone top button
• hair tied up nicely with an exposed neck waiting to be kissed
• sexting - miss this with DW massively
• the sense of 'build up/anticipation' - sex can be 'all in the mind' sometimes
• a sexually confident woman is a massive turn on
• being told what is going to happen ahead of time
• watching her masturbate
• her watching me masturbate
• kissing/touching in the same room as another couple
• dirty talk - my wife doesn't do this unless 'in the heat of the moment' - i find it such a turn on especially being 'urged to come'
• lingerie - am very visually stimulated and am lucky that my wife dresses up for me
• a willingness to try new things - I don't think I've ever been told 'will you do this for me?' - have usually had to make the running
• being touched over clothes
• partially dressed sex
• being touched/teased when driving
• car sex - takes you back to being a teenager again