Lying on top of partner?

[Msgiggles30]

Hi,
This sounds a bit strange but my partner wants to have sex with me lying flat on top of him but with my back to his chest so I cant support my weight like I usually would on the normal front facing on top position. I'm concerned as I'm a size 14/16 so not slim and dont want to crush him! Does anyone else feel this worry or partner like this and not bothered about weight? I said I'm too heavy and he doesnt seem to care but it still bothers me or am I being silly?! Thanks all x

My partner is not a size 14/16, but I sometimes enjoy the whole of her weight on me. I have not given it much thought, but I suppose it might be a role reversal thing.

I think you are overly concerned about his wellbeing; try it, and if it is too much for him I am sure that he'll soon let you know.

If he is fine with it then don't worry. That's my policy with this position. In the heat of the moment my brain isn't doing much thinking in any case!

He'll be fine. It's not as if all your weight is concentrated on one spot, it will be spread across him. We rather like the position.

Yes I know you're right it's just me being paranoid being like 180lb and tallish! But I go on top often so guess I should just relax, lying fully on someone feels a bit scary but hes definitely like dont worry and relax!

If he stops breathing with any weight issue, that's the time to worry.

The key to good sex is communication, before, during and afterwards. Practice this and you’ll be fine. If anything doesn’t feel nice, stop doing it.

The issue you may have is PIV movement, because it is going to be harder for him to move, and you don't find it so easy either.

Size 14/16 is 'average', of course.

Intrigued how this position would work

Yes I dont feel i look huge or anything I'm a 14 in jeans etc but big bust however I am overy aware of being heavy on top of someone!

@laurel84 urm like this and then you/him just thrusts bascially don't get it myself but willing to try it if he likes it.

Thanks @Msgiggles30 same anything's worth a try. Could be the best experience ever. If it's not know to say no next time lol

Used to do this a few years ago with Lady Gawain it was great. Not tried it recently though, not really sure why.

I like this (albeit with me with legs apart and DP with legs together), but I lie at more of an angle than in that pic. We're not massively different in weight but I'd imagine lying at an angle would help with weight distribution.
It's more work for me as I tend to make the majority of the movements. It involves arching my back a lot to 'thrust', so my back sometimes hurts afterwards. Worth it though!

It will be fine if he hasn't got a big paunchy beer belly, that you would just roll off.