Ok so something happened a while back and I still feel mortified. I’ve been with my dh since I was 19 (38 now) we have dc and despite the usual stuff that comes with having dc and not getting much time to ourselves we’ve always had a good sex life and he makes it clear often that he’s satisfied with everything as am I. Great, we’ll do I thought. Except for the fact a few weeks back I found some rather shocking vids on my phone. His phone was at apple being repaired so obvs he’d used mine a few times for Facebook, to make calls, emails etc. I fell asleep really early on the couch one Friday night as I was shattered after a busy day at work and my dh must have taken my phone to bed with him. No problem except for the fact I woke up the next morning and noticed the search history. He must have forgotten to clear it. I clicked one one of his searches and it was normal porn which to be honest I don’t have a problem with as we are both usually open and honest about watching It occasionally. Anyway I then clicked on another of his searches and I was mortified. It was only videos of girls shitting on each other! I’m not joking I felt physically sick. I couldn’t confront him about this until later that day as the dc were at home but when I did he looked embarrassed at first but then didn’t really give me an explanation. He said that he only looked at it for a laugh but I was fuming. As far as I’m aware he hasn’t looked at stuff like that before but who the hell knows. Please tell me I’m not over reacting here?