Sex survey 6. X with how many men?

[notevenat20]

Following on from the very interesting question about the number of sexual partners, this a more detailed questionnaire.

How many men have you...

Had an orgasm with?
Had anal sex with?
Swallowed?
Really really enjoyed sex with?

(For me I think it is 2, 1, 7, 1)

5,0,0,3

Around 20
All bar one
All of them
About 90%

1. All, no idea on number
2. Two
3. Two
4. Two

0 (sadly), 1, 3, 7 or 8

2, 2, 2, 1 (this last number feels a bit unfair. I did really enjoy sex before but with current partner it's amazing).

7,6,5,3

3 1 2 2

I wonder what it means if your numbers are going up (0, 1,3 ,7) or down (7, 6, 5, 3)?

1, 3, over 20, under 5.

My numbers going down mean I find it easy to cum and I enjoy anal and swallowing with new partners, but I can only say I really really enjoy sex when it’s with someone I’ve got to know well

40
30
40
40

All estimates. I've never really kept count but I don't think i'm far off

5
1
4
4

I had a boyfriend who didn't eat in the downstairs restaurant. Sex was ok but not, looking back enjoyable.

1. Double figures.
2. Single figures (l think)
3. Double figures.
4. Double figures.

Double figures like 99 or double figures like 10? ;)

That reminds me of the line in four weddings and a funeral 'less than Madonna but more than Princess Diana'

2
2
More
Not enough of the 20 odd I've slept with

7
2
8
4

I think..!

"Really really enjoyed" to me meant that it stood out as particularly fantastic sex. I enjoyed sex with all except one who made zero effort (and I mean zero) but with some I had exciting satisfying sex nearly every time.

3
2
2
1.5 (1 without doubt, the other yes but with reservations ......)

1, 1, 3, 2

I read a survey a while ago that said around o third of women do anal. That seems at odds with almost everyone above. I genuinely didn't realise so many women were having anal sex!

Again, with any survey, nobody has ever asked me!

WB205020 Three things.

First, the sort of woman who answers a sex survey on mumsnet is in no way representative of the average woman in the UK.

Second, my guess is that the percentage of women who have ever had anal sex is only going up. This is because the central driver for more anal sex is free online porn and that affects young women much more than older women (largely because men who grew up watching anal sex online really want to have anal sex but also because if we can actually see other women having anal sex it makes it look more doable). As these women get older more and more of the population will have had anal sex.

Third, my guess is that more people on MN sex are men than admit it. In the old days they would have been boarding school boys getting a thrill.

Hi WB its definitely self selecting and has as fraction of the traffic of any other part of the site.

For what its worth my personal experience doesn't match with whats posted
Ie I’ve slept with 28 women and 3 have swallowed, so c10%. When the op did a bj survey about 65% swallowed.

Also I’ve only had anal sex with one woman - but as a decent proportion of the 28 were ONS or short flings anal wouldn’t necessarily Be on the cards anyway.

6,2,4,1