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Sex survey 5. How often can your man manage?

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notevenat20 · 07/07/2020 19:52

Following a conversation in another thread, I realised that I didn't know something I am sure many women would like to know. How often can men have sex at each age? So...

Going by your experience of men (over 40) you have had sex with, two questions.

How often could they have sex?
How old were they (to the nearest 5 years. No need for too much detail.)?

This is only for men over 40 as I assume most men under that age can do it more than once a day.

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notevenat20 · 16/07/2020 09:30

Why would you leave a man who doesn’t always have an orgasm? Do you think a woman should be left who doesn’t always have an orgasm.

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Zovir · 18/07/2020 08:49

My partner is 51 and wants sex all the time. I see him 4 days out of 7 and we have sex between 2 and 5 times a day. It’s a fairly new relationship and we are constantly amazed to be honest. How people who’ve been married 30 years and had children keep going is beyond me. I’m in awe. the last 7 years of my 30 year relationship were sex-free as I couldn’t bring myself to shag someone so selfish and irresponsible.

xpc316e · 18/07/2020 17:16

I am 63 and have some ED, so sex is no longer as spontaneous as it was. I would love to have sex daily, but the headaches from Viagra and the need to take it on an empty stomach mean that it is not going to happen.

I do wonder how those people who have sex multiple times per day find time to live, work, cook, clean, etc. In the past I could manage to have sex multiple times, but it was always when either on holiday, or off work. Sex for us is rarely a wham, bam, thank you Mam, affair so we would find it difficult to find hours in the day when we could devote to sex with being on differing work patterns.

Zovir · 18/07/2020 19:00

@xpc316e both of us are working from home, so lots of opportunity. Plus we go to bed early and wake up early for lots of morning sex while the sap is rising 😂

xpc316e · 18/07/2020 19:47

Zovir, we are also early to bed and early to rise. As we age, our sex life has moved towards more morning action. It's a great start to the day.

TigerDater · 19/07/2020 00:01

Certainly is Smile

Malpki · 19/07/2020 00:26

Imagine the uproar of a "How often can your woman manage?" thread. FML.

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notevenat20 · 27/07/2020 06:45

Malpki. We women don’t have the same issues with recovery time/ED. But men asking how often their girlfriend/wife wants to have sex is extremely common.

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gingganggooleywotsit · 31/07/2020 20:17

dh is nearing mid 50s and can manage twice a day with a big gap in between, say morning and evening

AnotherAlterEgo · 01/08/2020 22:26

My partner is a new love, we met in real life February but met online in November. We haven't seen each other since the start of lock down. Being a new couple or sex lives didn't stop, we did get rather intense over the phone for a while. One amazing day he had six climaxes but the first one was the result of a waking dream and I had nothing to do with it. That's a man in his late fifties. It's been less intense since then.

A previous lover of around the same age had an ED and was happy with a couple of times a day a couple of times a week on holiday. Just once a day in 'normal times'.

wizzywig · 19/10/2020 17:16

Mid forties, and since his 20s its been no more than once every 3 days. And its over in less than a minute

isitsummertimeyet · 19/10/2020 17:40

im 44 and could happily have 3 or 4 'decent' sessions a day , not 30 seconds pump n squirt moments, its more a case of once the missus has come shes too sensitive for repeat sessions until the next day, even then she claims shes very sensitive from the orgasm..

ramesesmaze · 19/10/2020 18:40

Been with DH since he was 21, he's 44 now. These days he probably could manage 2 or even 3 times a day but it would have to be spaced out 😂 And to be fair we've only managed that if we are away for the weekend and that hasn't happened for a year. Definitely can't manage it twice in one session any more. Well he can, but only 1 orgasm for him, can't finish the second time any more. It's quality over quantity these days!

isitsummertimeyet · 23/11/2020 14:58

2/3 times a day without a problem for DH whos 44.

he would deffo have more if I wasnt so sensitive after my 1st orgasm

Arnoldthecat · 23/11/2020 19:03

Your all getting more than me at the moment Envy

Rgy3250999 · 24/11/2020 22:37

Whilst I don’t disbelieve this is possible, do people really want it multiple times everyday? I love sex but it would become a bit monotonous and forced if I had it multiple times everyday, whereas every few days it’s special and exciting. Is it just me?

isitsummertimeyet · 25/11/2020 23:35

@Rgy3250999
Some weeks couple of times a week is good, other times, 5 times a week suits the mood, its rare due to being too sensitive to have more than one rude sess in a day though, i dont know how people get past that sensitive feeling, its too painful to keep at it over and over.

TheWindowDonkey · 26/11/2020 18:29

Between 2 and 4 times a day, daily when we see one another, several times a week. Early 40’s

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