Name change for this one. I've only heard of the 'death grip' on Mumsnet and wondered how common it is?
When I first got with now DH. We were quite young and he use to find it difficult to finish during sex. I use to be mortified and thought I must have a loose vagina. After finally talking about it he admit he had a very firm grip when masturbating (sorry if this is all tmi). Since then (it's now been 10 years) he has managed to sort it out and he no longer does it and he has no issues finishing during sex.
It has only been in the last year or so on MNs I have seen it mentioned on other threads that I realised it was a thing. I think it still causes me confidence issues especially since we have had children. Just wondered if others have had similar experiences?