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Mfm and double penetration

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onemorerose · 16/01/2020 21:50

I really want to do this and I will when a good opportunity presents itself. From reading about it it seems that it can be quite awkward in terms of positions. Has anyone any advice on what has worked for them? I feel like apologising for asking but it is the sex board Blush

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NameChangeNugget · 17/01/2020 18:39

Best face down so you can position your hips.

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onemorerose · 18/01/2020 00:06

Yes that seems to be the favourite starting point thanks. I’m just hoping to eliminate the awkwardness of finding a good position, the men who have said they will are straight.

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ohwhattodowithmylife · 18/01/2020 20:24

No experience of this but will be really interested to hear what it's like!!

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onemorerose · 19/01/2020 00:26

Just trying to do my research on it at the moment so that it’s not so awkward that we all give up when it happens lol. I’m thinking that bringing two men I know but don’t know each other would be a bad idea and it would be better with one man I trust and a trusted (but unknown to me) friend of his.

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outherealone · 19/01/2020 01:26

Do you mean double as in arse / cunt as opposed to spit roast cunt/mouth?
I’m intrigued by the logistics

xpc316e · 19/01/2020 12:33

I think that for everyone's information you need to clarify exactly what you have in mind. There are lots of options and some people are already a bit confused.

While you have a couple of straight men in mind, they do need to feel comfortable being in close contact with another man's cock. You need to be absolutely sure they are not straight-laced.

The logistics of having one cock vaginally and another one anally, if that is what you have in mind, are very much helped if the men involved are a bit longer than average. Extra girth might not be so helpful, especially if you are not already comfortable with anal sex.

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onemorerose · 19/01/2020 18:16

It’ll probably end up staying as just a fantasy.

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Cantbelieveit101 · 21/01/2020 03:59

Its amazing. You need to find the best position for you and the others involved.

Try it.

namechangednorth · 21/01/2020 17:28

Only done once and was fuelled with wine. Guy laid down with me on top and the other behind. Not well planned out as a position. Was a foursome and he started joining in and combination of wine and being aroused I didn't object.

Never done since as was years ago but being centre of attention was very exciting.

Make sure you trust the guys to go carefully.

BethPorter · 27/01/2020 01:15

I have not had great experiences with anal sex so would be very fearful. However the thought of two men making love to me at the same time does interest me

Namechangednorth · 27/01/2020 05:39

@BethPorter It is an exciting experience although I wouldn't suggest you try it with a long term partner of husband tbh. We all had a great time that day and it was extremely arousing and exciting being the centre of attention but you definitely need the right guys who you can trust.

BethPorter · 01/02/2020 05:28

Thank you NCN. "The right guys who you can trust", does seem an essential element. Any idea where I would find them?

Namechangednorth · 01/02/2020 06:37

@BethPorter
Sorry can't help with that one LOL. Mine wasn't planned at all. We were on holiday with another couple and had a villa together. I suppose all decent looking, the guys both being flirty and we had a rather boozy lunch, came back and started playing daft games and resulted in a strip poker type thing...never thought it would go further than underwear and having been laying around a pool in skimpy bikinis it didn't seem much different. Game changer when we were bet for next looser to remove their next clothing article and my friend lost her bra.....I think you know how it continued and ended.

I don't know how I would have felt with online strangers...well yes it wouldn't have happened I guess as that afternoon was more about friends being comfortable but the wine lessening inhibitions.

I don't regret it. It was very exciting as it unfolded fairly gradually but it isn't something I need to keep doing either

BackToTheCaveman · 02/02/2020 07:32

I have posted on here before. Every few months DP likes my mate to join us for a mmf session. We always do various forms of dp. DP doesn't like vaginal/anal positions where we can move apart easily. She doesn't want her vag/arse going in different directions. Our go to position is me lying on my back, legs over the end of the bed, feet on the floor. DP mounts me cowgirl and then leans forward to lie on me. Then my mate can stand at the end of the bed and lean forward to enter DP's arse. Having the anal Male leaning forward stops him moving away quickly and thus avoids panic to the woman. It's fun, both the woman and anal man get to move. Both men will feel each other inside.

MarnieXx · 09/02/2020 15:52

Following. My FWBs male friend has seen my pictures and fancies a threesome. My FWB told me and I'm thinking about it but nervous. I like the idea of being centre of attention but worried about pain aspect of two at once.

xpc316e · 14/02/2020 14:28

medium.com/sexography/all-about-double-penetration-7aeb15dffd1e

^ A short article that confirms that it isn't as easy as porn films make it appear to be.

MarnieXx · 23/02/2020 14:57

@xpc316e Thank you for posting this, doesnt look as easy as I'd expected. We have played around with men at swingers places but only really myself and bf having sex whilst me kissing/giving oral to other men. I'm a bit nervous to try DP in that sort of setting.

MarnieXx · 23/02/2020 15:02

@BethPorter i have a very adventurous partner and we attend swinging type places so I'm sure if someone was reasonably appealing, we would maybe swap details and meet them again for more. I couldn't see if you were single but maybe first try FAB Swingers to meet at least one person who you could click with sexually, and then go from there.

Mumofthree1984 · 28/02/2020 12:01

I've done this before when I met a guy off fab, we agreed to bring his friend into it also, although now I wouldn't do it again as I'm in a relationship, it was a very very enjoyable experience, if you want to know anymore feel free to pm. Me 😊

Natalialikes · 02/03/2020 15:06

Did you do this yet?
Ive got my first mfm planned for this friday and its something I want to try but I'm going crazy with nerves. Well nerves and excitement lol!

MandyJane1 · 03/03/2020 07:28

Not yet myself but have had 2 / 3 men play with me whilst partner has sex with me. Not sure I'm ready to go the whole hog yet though he wants to. Good luck!

Namechangednorth · 03/03/2020 12:34

Good for you in planning it. I can imagine the nerves although I never had the chance to plan. It is dirty as hell but very very hot. My friends would be amazed if they ever found out what I had done...sometimes the quiet ones can me surprising.

Natalialikes · 03/03/2020 13:47

Not going to lie, we are active swingers so I've had plenty of experience with group sex but I've never been the only lady present. I'm more nervous for this than the first time we went to a club but at the same time can't wait. We are on a WhatsApp group chat and this week all we've done is message about it and the suspense is killing me! lol

MandyJane1 · 03/03/2020 17:10

@Natalialikes from what ive read, one needs to be quite skilled to make this work. How did you find partners to join in and how do you know they can make it work! I've been swinging a bit and there are a lot of inexperienced people out there.

Natalialikes · 03/03/2020 18:09

@MandyJane1 Well me and my husband have been going to swingers clubs semi regular for 3 or 4 years. We've got to know quite a few couples in that time who have become our good friends. This other guy is from one of those couples so I have slept with him plenty of times already when we have full swapped with them as a couple. If it wasn't for that, then I could have always found a willing guy on fabswingers. There are literally hundreds of them local. I could probably get a stranger to come round tonight if I was inclined so its not difficult but i suppose finding someone you are sure you actually want to do it with would take a bit more effort.

I have had sex with 2 men at the same time before but like i said previously, theres always been at least one other girl there so I was never 100% the centre of attention but because of those experiences, I sort of know what to expect and how much effort it takes lol.

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