I had anal sex for the first time (I'm in my early 40s!) this week. Never thought I would but I actually enjoyed it! Plenty of lube, very slow and gentle, it didn't hurt and would definitely do it again.
However, I'm a little shall we say swollen down there 🙈 is this normal? He has used a finger before now and I've noticed I feel slightly different there when I'm washing, I've not been brave enough to look in the mirror!