BDSM

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I’ve seen a few posts on AIBU recently that relate into BDSM practices and generally being incredibly rude to those who partake.

I am in a BDSM relationship with a new Dom. We’ve been together since July. At first we were vanilla but after some in depth discussion we realised we were both interested in similar kinks.

I am not being abused, I have no history of abuse or mental illness.
I really enjoy the company of my boyfriend outside of the bedroom, we look pretty normal. I just have a few kinks for pain & bondage that he is happy to indulge.

I’d be interested to know if there others who partake of these obviously very controversial activities?

I'm a sub. I was briefly in a Total Power Exchange with a bloke, but it soon got boring for me. He was really into inflicting pain when I wasn't really into that.

I mainly just like normal sex, maybe a bit rough, with a bit of being called names. Even within being a sub or being a sub there's a massive range of what individuals like. For instance I know someone who's a sub, but it seems to mostly be just fantasies of being cuckolded.

*or being a dom

How does bdsm work for you, when you have kids to worry about ?