If I've never had an orgasm...

[bitofabelly]

What vibrator/ toy would you pick...think it's time to change things up and try something different. Never ever had a proper orgasm and would love to know what's your go to. Hands just don't work 😢.
Thanks..and this is a genuine ask

I'd post in the sex topic for a start.

It took me a long time to learn to use my hands as well. I’d recommend finding some erotic stories to read (the Internet has loads) and a small multi speed bullet vibrator, and just try to relax and explore. I can’t go from just my imagination at all, I need something to focus on

Get a rabbit or clitoral stimulator

Womaniser

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Bullet vibe or if you don’t mind spending more womaniser.

Definitely a rabbit vibrator.

I think rabbits are a bit much for a first go, and can seem quite big and unwieldy. I have one and have had others in the past, but I always go back to a simple little bullet

Wand.

I've got various toys but that is definitely my favourite and does the job every time.

You might want to try something from the Lelo range. They are quite different from other sex toys and very effective.

Lovehoney magic wand

@bitofabelly

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No problem. We're moving the thread over for you now.

Womaniser/ satisfyer pro

Which bullet and which wand...would you recommend...I'll go and read some reviews.

www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40193

Sorry I meant the rechargeable one of the one I linked!

Another one for womaniser or Lelo Sonar clit stimulator.
You'll orgasm in about 30 secs at first until you get used to it and can be used whilst having sex too, I've recommended it to about 5 friends and they've all thanked me profusely!

Rabbit vibrator for me!

Magic wand is by far the best I've ever used but might be a bit powerful for your first toy!
Rabbits are okay..
Bullets don't do anything for me but maybe a good starting place :)

Every woman should own at least one vibrator. But, that said, it is equalky important for her to discover her own body with her own hands.

I woul suggest a small bullet to start and focus on the clitoral stimulation. There is a world of magic there.

By contrast some Rabbits are so noisy, it can be akin to having a cement mixer in the bedroom.

If you have a partner then his/hers fingers and tounge.

this one

I've got normal vibrators and inside they don't do much for me. Using them on the outside does but this is by far better.

Thank you all...ordered the Womanizer to start the ball rolling. Appreciate all the responses

Check out Love Honey website 😉 lots of useful info, reviews etc
Good luck and enjoy 😉

OP hope you enjoy it ,be nice if you could post if any good .