I'm looking for opinions from the gentleman on here. I split from my ex husband over a year ago now but in all honestly we were over a long time before that. We have 1 DC who is still fairly young. After spending a good while just me and DC iv realised that I may not want to spend the rest of my life alone, although I'm not looking to get remarried again or even sure I'm looking for anything serious or long term. I feel like it's time to get back out there again. However, the thought of going to bed with a man slightly terrifies me, as I've not been with anyone (ex husband or other wise) since having DC. I'm the wrong side if 30 now and I'm not in bad shape but equally my body has obviously changed from how it was in years gone by. Also, in this current age of social media and airbrushing etc where we are surrounded by images of women with perfect bodies it sometimes makes me feel even more nervous! As a woman, from my perspective, I understand attraction is important in being with someone but for me a lot of that is less about how they look and more about who they are/how I feel in their company etc. But i know men are visual creatures and so my question is: when meeting someone new, how important is a womans body and how it looks??