Mess control!

[Littledancer13]

So a recent discussion over lunch (as you do!) with a very good friend turns to us talking about sex, now who is the weird one here... person A uses the pill for birth control but also uses condoms for ‘mess control’ they only get used towards the end of dtd but ultimately no wants to sleep in the wet patch! 😂 Person B uses the implant for birth control so doesn’t see the need for anything else and thinks person A is weird for even thinking about the mess and grossness!! Come on people... what do you do?!?! Mess everywhere or a condom?! Please enlighten us!

We do the John Wayne with tissues, when feeling particularly manly I'll lift my wife whilst we are still together and deliver her gently to the bathroom but tbh it has only been on a handful of occasions!!

I've thought about condoms before but they do have a marked effect on sensation.

If your bed isn't an absolute state by the end of it, he's been half assing it

A small towel underneath you will mop up, then go to bathroom and wash.

I'm with person B. A's way seems like a faff!

It really amuses me when people say about sex mess. I'm a squirter and

☝🏻 she knows the score! 😂
It's when round 3 hits and tomorrow's laundry creeps into your mind 🤦‍♀️🙄

We’ve been using the pull out method for years, not for contraception (got that covered) but for mess control - we both work shifts and most often have sex in the mornings so it’s the best way to prevent subsequent leakage (apparently). I was a bit miffed at first, but you get used to it and while there’s no substitute for coming inside it does open up other options (tummy, boobs, mouth, her hand or mine) which adds to the fun and variety.

As I get older I find I am less sensitive and I get the strongest orgasms from finishing by hand. We both feel it lacks a little intimacy sometimes, and if I really want to come inside her that’s ok. Sometimes she’ll ask me to come inside her, or when I go to pull out she’ll just grab my bum and keep me inside. It’s all good.

@rhea9009 - yup. All the washing!!!

@busybarbara I just snorted my wine up my nose ffs 😂😂 thanks!